k so there was this girl and she liked me like from before, but iw wasn't really sure and so it took my a long time to suck up the courage and ask her out.I finally did like a month later, but my first mistake was not setting an actual date!So she ended up having to go on vacation and stuff so we actually didn't go out until almost a month later!So we went out, and I didn't think it went too bad but it could've been better. And now is my big screwup... i was kind of distracted as we were lining up for ice cream and she ended up paying for hers! So after that we just sat and talked for a bit and that was it. After the date we got home and we chatted on msn and everything seemed cool.Then a few days passed I tried calling her got her to set up another date, left a msg.. didn't get a reply then left a text and she replies that shes busy. So then I try calling her the following week and no reply. Then i get a msg on facebook basically saying it wasn't going to work out.Now its been a few months and I just can't get over her! We barely talk now its kinda awkward.. but i haven't been in a relationship since and i just can't seem to get her off my mind.I know she really liked me before and i feel like i just really screwed up.. Do you think i still have a chance or is it over?
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I totally screwed up....
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If not paying for her ice cream is the real reason she doesn't want to continue seeing you then you should be thankful. Seriously, you dodged a bullet there.
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I agree. Real friends don't make any sort of big deal about things like that. (And perhaps I'm old-fashioned, but I prefer women who want to pay for themselves.)
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Its over. Id move on and find someone new.
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If she didn't think it would work out because you didn't buy her ice cream, then you're better off without her.
I'm just assuming it wasn't for that. Perhaps the feelings just weren't mutual, or she thought of you more as a friend. It's in the past, the only thing you can really do now is put it behind you and try to move on.
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If a sugar daddy was what she was looking for, consider yourself lucky. You just got a good education with little investment. Move on.