Ok...so....i started this account when i was 12...and now ive come back because i dont know what else to do...I feel like my boyfriend isnt attracted to me physicaly. weve been together for jsut over a year...thigns were good but im way more driven than he is. ive offered him eveyrhting, and am into everything and i just feel like he only does it so i stop bugging him about stuff... i just...i dont feel like im good enough for him, but when im wiht him i have confidence to do anythgin and everythign,..and gah..its really frustrating. why doesnt he want me more? hes 17...i wish he was more into sex and touching and makign out...anythign ...what can i do? why is he like that? am i not good enough?thanx for replying..
My boyfriend isnt interested
Welcome back, lil_cutie.I think it's just the difference between different people. Some people just have stronger sex drives than others. There's not much you can do about it. It's not that you're not good enough - the fact that you've been together for over a year shows that.
Welcome back to the site.I have been in your shoes, kinda. I understand what you're feeling. have you had a honest to goodness heart to heart talk with him. There are so many changes taking place inside a 17 year old body and mind that he might not know these things are bothering you. Understand that each person has a different sexual drive. your's might be higher than his and maybe he just needs to understand where your coming from. Not every 17 year old male want to have sex all the time. perhaps he afraid of the responsibility that comes along with having sex.Have a talk and find out where his head is at...
I don't think you should bother staying with some one who dosn't make you feel good about yourself. If your sex drived don't match up and it's getting you down, move on and find some one who makes you feel happy and good about yourself.
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