So lately, I've been getting this feeling like my girlfriend is cheating on me. I have no proof, or any reason to think so. So I want to know if any of you would be able to help me get out of this downward spiral of thinking? Before I do anything I'll regret.
Bouts with doubt
Is it a general problem with self-confidence, do you think?
That's an astute observation that I didn't think of. In lieu of any tangible reason for thinking someone is cheating it just may be what Ineligible said or some derivation there of.Another possibility, have you been looking at others and feeling guilty for it and maybe transferring that guilt to suspicion of your partner.
There is no punishment. There is no reward. There are only consequences.
I do think a lot that I'm not good enough for her. Maybe that's the self confidence issue. As far as looking at other people, for the longest time I thought I wasn't allowed to think anyone else was cute, and just the other day, I finally stopped thinking that way and admit to myself more I see other girls and think they're cute. But even before that, she just seems to be getting distant, mostly when she's hyper, but then when she's not, she still seems to always have a much better time talking with other guys rather than with me. Any remedies/