Alright ive been sexually active for about a year and ever since the beginning i could barely feel inside. When im having sex i can only feel it going in at first then it hitting the back of it which just feels awkward. Like i love the emotional connection n all just i expected sex to feel so much better. I'm now paranoid thinking maybe ive been cursed with a loose pussy? Or im just numb? an std? I'm freaking myself out. I've tried getting my boyfriend to use oral stimulation first but he cant seem to get me off either way. But i can get myself off in 10 mins? Is anything seriously wrong?
Can't Feel Anything
If you can bring yourself to orgasm than there is definitely nothing wrong. Most girls get more pleasure from clitoral stimulation than penetration. Show your boyfriend what you do that works for you then teach him how to do it. Also during sex try using clitoral stimulation at the same time. You can do it yourself or your boyfriend can do it for you. Work something out with him. I bet he'd be happy to help.
"Observe the art of seduction. Watch, learn, and don't eat my cookie."-Friends
I agree with Lee. Teach him how to use his fingers, don't be shy to speak up if he's doing it wrong. Even now after years (and her training me in the beginning) my girlfriend will still mutter "higher" "too hard" "to the left a bit". Doesn't phase me.
Once he's got that down pat try standing over him on all fours (whilst he lies on his back) and kissing him. From that angle he can thrust very easily and quickly, and still gain easy access to your clitoris without tiring. It's also quite intimate.