Hi people ...i have got a girlfriend and all i want to do is please her in the bedroom but i cant help but feel nervous and anxiousshe stayed over with me last week one night and we kissed etc but didnt have sex i didnt feel ready because i felt very nervous!i want to with her i really love her and now we have got to the stage of going to have sex i want to do it well!i've had sex before but i cant help feeling nervous with this girlcan anyone give me any tips or help?thankyou!!
God why i so nervous?
well if your that nervous, and you've done it before, than that must mean that you really love this girl, right? i'm not speaking from experience in that matter, but others. you could tell her how nervous you are, and if she loves you the same, she should understand. and if you haven't asked, who knows? maybe she feels the same way.
Nothing's perfect... The world's not perfect. But it's there for us, trying the best it can. That's what makes it so damn beautiful.
i do love her a lot i almost feel like a virgin again i wont lie its been a while since i had sex and i really need some tips on how to relax will booze do the trick or some kind of chill pill?
A glass or two may help you relax, but be careful not to overdo it.
dont booze it out. treat it like ur a virgin again. u wont loose it and if u pop quick, thats all the sooner you will be onto nut #2. if your really nervous or a real n**** crank one out on the drive over and walk in on the 2nd nut. (any one know the reference). dont booze it though. make it special.
Nerves arent always a bad thing. It just means you care. Just go for it.. Im sure once you get into the groove you will feel ALOT more relaxed. Im sure shes just as nervous as you are!
Happiness is an attitude. We either make ourselves miserable, or happy and strong. The amount of work is the same.
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can anyone give me any tips or help?
When you sense humping time approaching live in the moment and don't project about what you think the future may be, even if it's just moments away... cause it won't be whatever scenario you've played out in your head.
Easier said than done, I know, but if you can do it, things 'll be a lot better.
There is no punishment. There is no reward. There are only consequences.