i hate tattoos. i dnt know why but they dnt vibe with me. right before i was arrested my car was named the little dipper so i want to get the little dipper tatooed on me so i will hate it enough that i will not be in a situation like this again. what i cant decide is where? any suggestions?also iv been dating a virgin for 2 weeks now and we have not done anything besides make out and outside of clothing. she asked me to take her virginity for my xmas gift to her, i think its a little soon (she is 14 im 17), shes a little young and we should wait till wev been dating for longer. am i being a prude here? im also definately not over my ex from a long ass time ago, morally should i not take it cause i cant return her feelings?also im dating her because i didnt want sex to be a part of the relationship. all the past ones have ended up with me only caring about the sex and being with her because of that. i want to see if the sex isnt an issue, if it will somehow fill the void that my ex left me with.another thing... how do you ask a girl to at least trim up down there with out making her totally self conscious? should i ask straight out or while going down on her pretend to get a hair or is it just shit you cant ask?finally, part of my legal shit is i have to meet with a counselor. the guy is trying to tell me i am an indenial bi/gay guy. iv met with him twice and he is making question what i have never questioned before. he told me to try it and see if my depression lifts and if i get over my ex. is it worth trying? i mean since my ex im no longer really interested in girls besides ones who look like her and its always been about the sex (part of the current sexless relationship)...is it worth giving that shit a chance or is my shrink crazy? how would i go about finding some dude like that with out everyone knowing?sorry this is long
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am i being a prude here? im also definately not over my ex from a long ass time ago, morally should i not take it cause i cant return her feelings?
No, you're not being a prude, you're being moral. She should respect that, but even if she doesn't, it's the right thing to do.
Does the counsellor know that you have a girlfriend when he suggests you should try gay relationships?
is it worth giving that shit a chance or is my shrink crazy?
I think only you can judge that.
for shit sakes, don't get a tattoo that represents hate. Tattoos are a beautiful and permanent reminder of the good in our lives.If you tattoo hatered, you are transfering that hatered to your body... the end result with be self lothing
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