Wow, what the f**k.

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Alright, i just lost my virginity, but definently not to who i wanted to lose it to. I guess i had a beer too many, but i really did not feel THAT drunk to do it with a girl like that. She was just "an easy fuck", as most of my freinds say. I had no attraction towards her, in fact (not to be a mean person, just being truthfull) most guys would rank her a -1 on a scale from 1-10. but i did it again, to the same girl, yesterday, because i felt like i had to, i needed to do it again to see what it felt like because i couldnt really remember the last time. she told me she wanted a "fuck buddy", like that. Plus shes a good 6 years older than me. Im 19. God i just cant beleive i did it with a girl like that 2 times. Have any of you guys done some stupid shit like that? Please dont get offended by my post and start spilling hate on me cuz your really just gonna be wasting your time. Thanks.

Well theres a statistic, 90% of teenagers in the UK (not sure where your from if it applys there) having sex for the first time do it, drunk, unprotected and its regreted after (i think two are ticked there for you). I don't mean to be mr.doom and gloom but what i want to say is your not the only one, it has/will happen to the majority of us.

wow.. I kind of feel sorry for the girl.People need to be more careful and not so.... loose

Wow. You sound like a pig. I feel sorry for her.I dont feel sorry for you at all.

Hey, i wasnt really looking for sympathy. Haha, i always thought the pink ranger was the hottest power ranger

Alright. I got you.

Thats for damn sure!!!

He may be an ass but it does sound like she's taking advantage of him.Imagine if it were a 19yo girl coming here saying a 25yo did that to her? It would almost sound like rape.

I don't see it as this lady taking advantage of him. He even said he met up with her again and had sex with her again, without being under the influence of alcohol because he wanted to know what it was like since he was too drunk the first time. If anything sound like he used her the second time. And only regret he has is doing it with a girl that he doesn’t find all that attractive. Wonder if he’d have the same regret if the girl was attractive to him?

It probably makes me sound shallow as hell but yea, i probably wouldnt feel as bad. But ive known her for a good 8 years, and i really dont like who she is on the inside either. She really annoys the shit out of me. Oh well, i guess im just an idiot. lol

not sure where your from but rape, to me at least, is haveing sex with someone that really does not want to have sex with you. beleive me, this girl wanted it.

Rape? I dont think so. Especially if it happened TWICE.

What I get from this is you're drunk and have sex with someone you did NOT want to be with. You then get drunk again where upon she takes advantage of you again, maybe having an easier time of it because you've done it once you see no harm (at the time) of doing it again.I had a similar experience myself where an older woman I thought was a friend pretty much force fed me alcohol all night and then when I was retardedly smashed tried to take advantage of me. Luckily at that stage of my life, even in my drunken stupor I had no intentions or desire to lose my virginity.

Did u do it again when you were sober?

Yes. Regrettably.

But see you have it wrong. If you re-read what he said, he said he had sex with her the first time when he was drunk, than when he was SOBER he went and had sex with her again. It was clearly his choice to have sex with her the second time... and truthfully he didn't have any objections to having sex with her the first time obviously. He simply just has regrets with having his first time with someone he doesn't find physically attractive.

Okay, what happened, happened. So now go find someone your attracted to and who is attracted to you and it'll be a thousand times better.

Got it. Thanks for the advice.

and try maybe not being so superficial. get to know the girl a little first before you jump in bed with her..

lol. ive known her for a good 5 years at least. but if i meet a girl that is really hot, and shes DTF, then i will do it within 2 hours of saying hi. Haha, im just kidding...........NOT! lol