So Ive began to notice how many older women, as in 30 and up, are starting to have these intimate encounters on a regular basis, with guys my age(18) and into early twenties. So my question is, is how exactly is it, that if an older guy wants a younger girl, then its pretty much rape. But if an older women has sex with a younger guy, then its in all good fun and sex.Dont get me wrong, I mean I would go for an older women if she were after me but I guess the gender swap throws me off.Also, how could a younger guy get an older women. What do they look for when theyre looking for a younger guy.How would you tell a women that you would want to be with her.Im not planning, just being inquisitive.
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Older Women Wanting Younger Men.
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Legally, so long as both sides are willing and over 18, it's not rape whatever the age difference or whoever is older.Sometimes, however, the older person is looking for someone younger because the older person wants someone he or she can dominate, which isn't good regardless of gender.
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Originally Posted By: FFa&bSo my question is, is how exactly is it, that if an older guy wants a younger girl, then its pretty much rape. But if an older women has sex with a younger guy, then its in all good fun and sex. It's down to the fairly outdated view that women are still the "weaker" sex. So when an older man goes after a younger woman it's looked upon like he's preying on the weak and naive.But when an older woman goes after a younger bloke, it's her being "empowered" and making decisions for herself because she is old enough to do that now.Just social programming really.
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Sometimes in my opinion that when some women and men go for the younger ones, it could be that they are going through a "mid-life crisis." They feel like they are losing their youth so it feels good to them to know that they "still got it". I agree that around where i'm from, if an older man goes for a younger woman then he's "robbing the cradle", but if an older woman goes for a much younger man than there's not really alot said about that. I know it's weird.
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yeah I just find it weird how society looks at it in a totally different situation when you flip around the sexes. But in all reality its the same. But everything all of you are saying makes a lot of sense.
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a bit old, but tough shit...
it isnt good ?
what if the one being dominated is ok with that? shit what if they like it? what if thats what they want is someone to dominate them? How can that be bad? -
If it's a matter of tying up and spanking, I have no problem so long as it isn't done to me.However I am uncomfortable with the idea that one person completely subsumes his/her personality to another. Even if done willingly, it seems unhealthy to me.
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I dunno, once its in the sheets, its what ever she wants, and I have never had reason to complain.
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No-one could ever say that your personality was completely subjugated, Chance.