Throughout my life I've been dumped and disappointed by and with women. I feel as though as if I have reached my limit with them and seriously have begun to consider trying men. I'm a little nervous about this but I am considering it. I just think that maybe I'll have better luck with men instead of women. Now I'm just considering this in the meantime and I'm not going to try anything yet. However I am still sexually attracted to women and to be quiet honest I do find men attractive enough to be actually sexually attracted to them. I know if I ask you guys what do you guys think, you are probably going to say that it's up to me and that you have no say in it, but still, what do you guys think? (And I am Being Serious, I am Not Joking Around About This I Have Never Been Serious About Anything In My Life)
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I've Tried Women And Now I Think I'm Tired Of Them
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heh, small world. i just had a conversation about this with one of my friends, about me. i feel the same way, kind of. but keep giving it a try, there's bound to be one, cha? just gotta be optimistic for now. and even if you do find a guy, it's just as difficult, you know. just because it happens to be two guys (or two girls), doesn't make it any less difficult. I totally stole that from Will & Grace, but helpful in this matter, nonetheless.
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You are very right in saying that, but let's just say that what if there is some guy out there for me who has gone through the same problems. I mean they always say there is someone out there for everyone, who says it has to be the opposite sex who is the one for you?
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and i agree with that too. I'm just saying, it'd be kind of difficult, especially because most guys aren't open to such things. I feel the same way you do, and I'm not saying it's bad, I support such "unions" if I have to be PC, just, difficult, you know?
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Yeah that's true and like you with me, I agree with you too. And I tank you for being so open minded. :wink:
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of course. one has to be, it's the only way things get done. like i said, i know how it feels.
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If I may ask, and with all due respect, what are you going through? It's okay if you don't want to say, I respect that immensely.
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pretty much, exactly what you described. i've tried asking girls out, often enough, not all the time, but often enough, only to be givin the great guy speech. so I started thinking along the same lines as you, maybe it'd be easier/better/whatever with guys. something i've been confused about for a while, and pondering. and thank you for your respect.
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Of course, you are very welcome.
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So, I'm assuming I've helped?
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Why yes actually, but I am still on the look out for a guy. I mean, it wouldn't hurt to try it. If I don't like it well then I don't like it. But yeah, you did help and for that I thank you. =)
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Don't assume you won't run into the same issues with men.
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I say try it what can it hurt. If nothing else it'll broaden your life experience.However, I will also say, if your looking for a friendship like you might have with a male friend it's going to be different. It's a sexual relationship and it comes with the complications that any sexual relationship does. Unless of course he's just a fuck buddy.I've had my dalliances with a few men years back. I will say the communication was more direct and less guess work was involved everything was just more straight forward or so it seemed. With one of the guys the drama was certainly no less. As a matter of fact it was greater by about ten fold but that was that guy. Just like women, men come in all types of personalities some are great and some you just want to run from.