Doesn't it just bring you down when Pot, or alcohol is more important then you.I have a problem with pot and alcohol, bigger then I should, I just can't stand seeing someone smoke or drink and it sure as hell bothers me when someone is high or drunk.But when they put it completely above you it just really gets down.So many times my gf or my friends in general ditched me to go smoke or drink or party.I hate feeling like number 2 to fucking Paper/grass and liquids. damn materialism.I understood the way people acted. a small example would be me and my gf, or even my female friends who smoke and drink and their boyfriends who are clean (using females for example because they're 95% of my friend population.My gf, and friends wouldn't even dare attempt, to stop smoking or drinking for a guy because "it's just not worth it." but my question is, why isn't it worth it.I mean you could lose someone great just because you like to damage your lungs and liver and feel silly. Plus pot and alcohol will ALWAYS be there. this is what pisses me off about the way people won't even seem to attempt to quit or take a break from it.Hell I could die tomorrow and be gone forever. pot and alcohol will probably be here 1000 years later, and hell if for some magical reason you are too, hey you can smoke and drink it still.
It's a real downer. (ranting)
Go with them, but don't smoke or drink...Get over it, people have been drinking and smoking for ages.There are people who are stupid about it, and there are people who do it for FUN. Doing it for FUN, and because they LIKE doing it, is alot different than doing it for addiction and crave or doing it because they're pissed off and they NEED it to feel good. What is taking a break going to accomplish with you? As soon as they're off the break you're back to your original self asking why they're not quitting. They're not quitting because they like doing it. I like smoking weed. I smoke weed because I like how it feels. I enjoy being looped out for an hour or two or 3. or a whole day. Depending. But, then again I can also engage in a full on conversation with anyone when I'm ripped, I can drive and I basically act sober but within MY own brain, I'm high and it feels good.If I was having a bad day or something I wouldn't smoke weed to make me feel better, because you're not solving it. You're drowning it out and it's just going to come back up for air. If you asked ME to take a break for you(assuming I'm a girl) my logical response would be why don't you take a break from NOT smoking and drinking. You're supposed to like someone for who they are. Find a differen't girlfriend, one thats clean if you have that big of a problem because it's just going to make them unhappy if they try and change for you. My question is...why do YOU have a problem with it?
yeah nothing u can do but skip out on hanging out with them when theyre doing those things.
Happiness is an attitude. We either make ourselves miserable, or happy and strong. The amount of work is the same.