Girlfriend- Not Interested?

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I've known my girlfriend for about 7 months now(since July).

At first, we began our relationship in October, so roughly 4 months we've been dating.

In the past 4 months, shes more frequently been pointing out guys, saying 'oh hes cute/hawt' or other qualities that I don't have that she likes, and has slowly began talking less and less to me.

Did we just have a short term relationship we at first we couldn't stand being without each other, but now shes hanging out with other guy friends more often than me.

Am I just paranoid / over worried or should I be concerned that shes lost interest in me?

If she's hanging out with other guy friends more often than with you, no you're not paranoid, it's not a good sign.

I agree with Ineligible, not a very good sign. I dont know how old you are but it sounds like a typical high school fling to me. Hopefully things get better.

If you really think she's not interested anymore, take control, do a preemptive break up. If shes doesn't want to be in the relationship you get to be the one to break it off on your terms. If she's just trying to make you jealous or whatever, you get to let her know your not gonna put up with that shit and you don't have to be with her.

Yeah, it sorta is a high school thing; except I'm 17(senior) shes 20. But yeah, thanks for the advice, I suppose I'll have a 'sit down' talk with her today.

Whatever you say make it clear your not like some little puppy dog who's gonna follow her around even when she treats without respect. Let her know being around you is a privilege and if she isn't going to do you right you aren't gonna take it.

So, I sat down and talked with her an hour ago, giving her a good 5-10 minute speech about it, and she didn't interrupt the whole time. After I finished she just hugged me and kissed my cheek saying that she was sorry and that she hadn't nor won't even think about leaving me.A bit confusing to me, don't know if it's true or if shes playing me. Hopefully I'll be able to find out soon.

Just to give an update, yeah. She was interested in someone else. One of my best friends. She just opened up about it. Apparently shes been with him for a week and neither of them told me until now.

Bro's before ho's man.And no I dont just generally say that about all women, put down your pitchforks ladies But I will say your friend is a dirtbag. Erase the phone numbers, IM, emails from both of them and move on with your life. You dont need people like that in your life dragging you down.Kick them both to the curb, keep your head up high, and look towards your bright future Kekk! You'll get better if your confident because you deserve better, both in a friend and a girlfriend!Best of luck to you Kekk!

how old are you?why sweat this shit? your young and have a long fucking life to get through, life is a dirty bitch, you need good friends and a good mate to get through it.Neither of these people qualify as such. Fuck em both, write em off and replace them both.I know it sounds shitty, and i know it feels like your the only one who understands, but everyone has been through the shit, it all gets better over time.Its a shitty answer and not what you want to hear, but its also the truth.