We've been dating 9 months and i like my girlfriend alot. I trust her completely, and am 100% sure she would never cheat on me. I don't believe she would leave me unless a sudden change in the relationship occured. i know my relationship is secure and not worried about it from a relationship point of view. Currently.
My girlfriend is very outgoing, has alot of guuy friends, and i find it frustrating knowing that guys think differently than most girls and thus.. this is where I find my jealousy. I can't stand to think that another guy would view the things she does as a sign of affection.
So I made up a list of things that may frustrate me, and im curious if you guys could give me some feedback if you think my jealousy is warranted and i should talk to her about it, or if i should not bring it up and deal with it myself... i know that protective/jealous guys are turn offs. Remember it isn't the fact that i think shes going to leave me that makes me jealous, just the fact that other guys might be getting satisfaction out of it. That frustrates me, and thus makes me jealous.
-Grazing Another Guys Face
-Having Other guys pick her up and sling over their shoulder
-Sitting on Another Guys Lap
-Close Dancing With Other Guys
GUYS tell me what you would honestly do in each situation
GIRLS tell me if you would ever do these things with other guys while your boyfriend is around, and also any advice for me? (my girlfriend isn't trying to make me jealous)