Orgasm to unconsciousness

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Originally Posted By: sadbuttrueIt sounds to me like you have some anger and frustration issues here, which concerns me somewhat. Exactly... plus it totally makes your screen name "Grown Past My years" a total joke, not to mention Mature and responsible? Not likely. Anyone that has outbursts that childish and immature are far from grown past their years.I'd advice you from making outbursts like that in the future. You have something to say either take it up with the person through PM or a mod/admin. Thank you.

Wouldnt you defend yourself if someone was saying things like that to you? Immediate reaction is self defense. EVERYONE has said things about people to defend themselves. including you Eddie. I remember you saying some pretty cruel things to me when I didnt agree with your view on homosexuality (We know that was a very long time ago).I know what its like. People have been ragging on him for shit since he got here and I also agree that that bullshit needs to stop.

I have so much i could say here but i don't have the patience or the desire to type it out. I will sum up my feelings though. Grown your outburst was too much, Star i agree you seem to have been after Grown from the start and never gave him a chance, as have alot of you. The choking out to unconscious thing is FUCKING RIDICULOUS and possibly the worst idea ive ever heard. Grown it wasn't a play choke if she went unconscious, this is coming from someone who gets put in choke holds daily and i have never once ever gone unconscious. I agree with Steph that Grown was within his rights to defend him self verbally, but i think he took it too far, but after reading him and Star fight in numerous post for what a year at least now? All i can say is it was a long time coming and im surprised it didn't happen sooner. Star was also well within her rights with her opinion but honestly Star this opinion that you have on Grown has been expressed by you so many times do we really need to hear it again? We all know how you two feel about each other cant you guys just find it within yourselves to stay out of each others post? It all turns into the same thing each time. Thats all i have to say for now.

Quote: Star i agree you seem to have been after Grown from the start and never gave him a chance, as have alot of you.You do read his posts, don't you? No person in the right mind would do or say the things he's posted about. That's why I get on his case because most have been nothing but atrocious and asinine. I've given him the benefit of a doubt before and thought he'd matured by now. But surprise surprise.Perhaps it is a bit self-rightous or even judgemental of me to say these things, but sometimes I can't help read something and not say anything. I'm sorry but I'm one of those people. Quote:I agree with Steph that Grown was within his rights to defend him self verbally, but i think he took it too far, but after reading him and Star fight in numerous post for what a year at least now?Again, nothing but sticks and stones. He can throw all the low class words he wants at me. Do you think I give a hoot?  Quote:but honestly Star this opinion that you have on Grown has been expressed by you so many times do we really need to hear it again? Sure, why not? I love abusing the plot holes in the right to free speech.  Quote:We all know how you two feel about each other cant you guys just find it within yourselves to stay out of each others post?Not in my nature to keep my mouth shut completely. There are times where I get itchy fingers, but even I think twice. Maybe you haven't noticed but I don't rag on ALL his posts.

I know you are one to speak your mind Star and i respect that. Im not here to start an argument with you or harp on you but its just almost like beating a dead horse at this point. You two no matter what it is seem to end up in the same spot each post, Star pointing out Grown f-ups and Grown telling you how much he doesnt care about you lol.

Im pretty certain you were one of the people who told me to ignore specific peoples threads. Might want to try that.

Originally Posted By: StephieJIm pretty certain you were one of the people who told me to ignore specific peoples threads. Might want to try that. I told you to do so because you take things way too personally. In my case, I don't let anyone's words get to me on a emotional level. I'm just blunt. Originally Posted By: MMAfighter90but its just almost like beating a dead horse at this point. You two no matter what it is seem to end up in the same spot each post, Star pointing out Grown f-ups and Grown telling you how much he doesnt care about you lol. I know where you're coming from. But sometimes, it's easier to watch a train wreck burn rather than put it out. Heh.

Yeah i think im doing playing peace keeper on this board. Ive tried it a few times and it never works out; plus im not one to be saying shit about tempers since mine has never been the best, though i never let it show on the boards....only once i believe.

The job of peacemaker is an important one, and it's appreciated.

being a peacemaker is important but it's also stressing. I think some one that is a peacemaker has a lot of patents. ( i bet that's spelled wrong)about the Orgasm to unconsciousness topic, i think i'm going to pass on going into that to much. my experience with it is not a good one. However, (LMAO look Pete i used however!) i can see both sides of the issue. The act is very dangerous and could cause death. Sadly I’d probably do that to my girl if she pressured me enough. It would hurt me a lot cuz the last thing I want to do is hurt my girl but I do fall under pressure. The next is nothing compared to the issue topic, I realize it but if you remove the actions maybe you’ll get what I mean. I dk.. I’m not so great at this expressing shit. When my girls wanted to be on top I let her and …well I’ll pass on that. It scared the shit fire out of me. I talked to Pete about it (it wasn’t too too long ago really) and he encouraged me to talk to her about it. So I did. I just flat out told her we cant anymore cuz I could really hurt her. That time she was lucky cuz it paralyzed me with fear, the next one might not been the same way. I explained to her that some times I’d just lay there and other times I fought with all I had. It started when I was a little shit, 4’10 and not even 100 pounds till I was maybe like a little over 5 foot and maybe 115 pounds or so. You get the idea - I wasn’t big at all. But now I weigh in the 190s and 6’1” - I can bench 315. Back during the abuse I couldn’t even pick up 80 pounds. Throwing my girl across the room would be nothing now. It would kill me to do that. She Can’t be on top for her own safety and she relies that. I don’t know what I would have done if she still pressured for her to be on top with sex.. It would be selfish and deftly start making me think different of her. But n the flip to all that if she sweet talked me enough I’d probably lay there and let her be on top. Even tho I know I could seriously hurt her. If this helped or not, I don’t know. Take it or leave it.

well heres an explanation as to why she passed out so quickly, i put her in a play choke, im sure MMA knows what i mean, nothing rough, like i was trying to get her to tap out, just tight enough so that it would really be a hold...what i didnt know until today when i saw her and asked her about it, because i was tired of hearing the bickering on here about it not being a "play choke" she confessed that she had been holding her breathe since i first put my arm around her neck, and when i got ready to press she exhaled entirely.now MMA, from your EXPERTISE! as well as mine, but i will leave mine out of it for the benefit of the people...when is it better to squeeze a choke hold to get someone to pass out in an MMA fight, after they INHALE or after they EXHALE?i think with his response, it'll clear alot of argueing on this post. and for the record, i bitched her out about that, because i felt like she put me inna predicament of FORCING her to passout...

Holding your breath = You go out alot faster, and is probably the last thing you want to do when being choked. They key to not getting choke is being able to breathe to get oxygen to your brain. Thats why in sparing when people get a choke on me i always try to defend one side of the choke, as long as i have that little bit of room to breathe i can find a way out of the choke.

Quote: Holding your breath = You go out alot faster, thank you, i will admit that whatever, there may of been foreseen things that i didnt consider, maybe because she has a small neck, i have large arms, etc. it created a tighter seal. etc.but all in all, she exhaled, and then didnt inhale purposely, not because i was "choking" her, but because she wanted to pass outive wrestled around with friends and exes, i understand they are small women and i am a large male. i mean damn, im 6 ft, 235 lbs. im a mountain of muscle. and i do need to be careful with my weight and women, but i was not at fault with what happened to her.i rest my case i dont care if anyone else wants to talk shit, ive said my peace.

Look at y'all, damn. There are better ways to go about things. Star, yeah, being blunt is good, but because you don't see things the way he does, doesn't really give you a right to go off on him, besides, he came here asking for help, ya?And Grown, the same. Star was trying to help, albeit a little rough around the edges, but nonetheless, and you don't need to go off because you don't agree, too.Now, I don't agree with it, as much as the rest of you don't, for the most part, but still, there are better ways to get points across. And besides, what happened to this...  Quote: ...but keep in mind that tolerance of other opinions, viewpoints, and lifestyles is what A2A is all about.

Why is it unsafe for her to be on top????

It reminds me too much of being raped. it's the only way i know to protect her if my mind flips out. I never told her we could never - just not right now.

Originally Posted By: LuvMyCatsAnd besides, what happened to this...  Quote: ...but keep in mind that tolerance of other opinions, viewpoints, and lifestyles is what A2A is all about. I just got home. I'm in a great mood but tired. So, I'm going to say this as nicely as I can:With all due respect, please don't feed me the hippie crap. I'm all for peace and acceptance, but welcome to the real world, where the word "tolerance" can only go so far.There, I said it.

This is not a good idea on many levels but during sex your distracted and more likely to not be paying enough attention and before you know it it's gone on to long and your partners dead.Don't say it won't happen to you cause there are plenty of people out there who went those few seconds to long and they all were careful and thought it wouldn't happen to them.

Originally Posted By: StephieJ

Wouldnt you defend yourself if someone was saying things like that to you? Immediate reaction is self defense. EVERYONE has said things about people to defend themselves. including you Eddie. I remember you saying some pretty cruel things to me when I didnt agree with your view on homosexuality (We know that was a very long time ago).

I know what its like. People have been ragging on him for shit since he got here and I also agree that that bullshit needs to stop.

Serious Steph.. You wanna bring that can of worms back?? If I remember correct you were the one saying some pretty nasty stuff about homosexuals (And personal attacks against me) back in the day to the point you got banned from the site, not me. But even with that said I am proud of the progress you made and that fact you and I were able to make amends and move forward like adults.

And to make it clear and show the difference... yes I got heated back in the day and to this day still will when it comes to equality. But there is a HUGE difference between equality and choking your partner for sexual pleasure.

My only issue with "Grown" is the fact he puts dangerous and fictitious crap where young kids can read. It's irresponsible and far from being "Grown Past His Years". People need to be responsible with the things they post not to mention the techniques they suggest.

Now for once think how it's possible some 15-year-old girl reads his posts, and is not curious about being choked while orgasming, so asks her 15-year-old boyfriend to choke her and he accidentally kills her. Does anyone really want to be responsible for that?? I know I don't.

Actually I remember u did get a ban from the website. But I never did. Nor have I ever because Ive always been able to access this site.

I was using that as an EXAMPLE.

Virtual, if you can't act mature.. or accept what this board is about.. maybe you need to refrain from posting in situations where you're going to attack people. Ive learned to do that and it makes things ALOT easier.. Just stop reading threads if they make you this upset.