My girlfriend recently requested that i not be such a nice guy in bed. I'm not bad in bed, she usually cums (when shes on top), so i think she just wants to spice things up some. She also requested that i talk a little bit dirty to her (not too much, it wierds her out). Also, more "spontaneous" sex. I'm not sure how to go about doing that though. Any help is appreciated.
How to be a bad boy in bed
I say do whatever makes you comfortable. If you aren't comfortable talking dirty then you shouldn't have too. If you want to try it then do it, you may love it! As far as spontaneous sex i would assume she means more sex that is "out of the blue".
Maybe instead of the usual friday night get together, have dinner, have sex, same old same old, you could surprise her with sex out of the blue. Maybe when your lounging around watching TV in the afternoon, maybe even in public if thats what floats your boat, just something that is out of the ordinary that you dont usually do.
Best of luck to yah!
i enjoy it...i've done it twice. the first time i was piss drunk and went a little overboard, but second tiem was better.
And we go to college about an hour apart, so i get to see her about twice a month on weekends if i'm lucky, maybe 4-6 days a month.
As for spontaneous, just don't do it a regular time when ever you get to see her. Instead of going out and having a dinner and doing whatever shit you all might do and then going home and having sex. You could, for instance, if you pick her up at school on the drive back have a secluded space scoped out and pull over and get funky. Talk dirty when she's not expecting it. Whisper something nasty in her ear when you all are at the mall and build on that to some good fuckin'.
Just remember fuck convention it's the enemy. Do shit that's unexpected and exciting.
There is no punishment. There is no reward. There are only consequences.
lots of people have different likes and dislikes about sex, why not ask her what she likes, what her fantasies are, maybe some of them will be along the same lines as yourself, maybe she wants you to be dominant in the bedroom, mabye she wants to be tied up purrs who knows until you ask her.
as for what you can do the choices are endless, but knowing a guy wants me right then and there is such a turn on for me, a quick call to say He was thinking of me and got hard, or whispering in my ear what He wants to do to me does it everytime.....but thats me....as the others said doing things differently can be all it needs, follow her into the shower one day.....or as oldfolks said, pull up somewhere and drag her to the back seat.......
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