I have been wacking off for at least seven years, I'm 18 now so I guess I really started doing it when I was 11 or 10, my first question is, is that weird? secondly now when I whack off, recently I mean, It doesnt take more than I want to say 30 seconds before I ejaculate, is that wrong as well?Then I have another problem that also deals with anal leakage/masturbation sometimes when I get really hard and I'm jerking off it will feel like there is some sort of liquid coming out of my ass, I'm sorry if that's alittle uncomfortable, but, also when this happens, only sometimes though, I'll start losing my erection and all the horny feelings that come with it before I even ejaculate, this can happen with my girlfriend. we havent had sex yet, just humping through underwear, but I'll start losing my erection, even if I'm really horny. so then I try to keep my erection up as long as possible till I actually do ejaculate, but then the next time we go for it Ill have a cramping feeling in my dick, and that'll also make me just feel less turned on.
Starting at 11, though earlier than average, is not abnormal.Time for sex and time for masturbation can be quite different, so I wouldn't worry unless you find sex is too quick. If it is, you could try extending your time by the stop-and-go method.I wonder if the liquid is actually sweat running down your crack? The loss of erection sounds like it's the psychological feeling that something is wrong.
I agree with what Pete said. As far as ten or eleven being early that's when I discovered the wonders of spankin' it... by accident. The way I look at it is I just got more pleasure in by starting earlier. It's no big deal.Sex and spankage are two different things. I can get off pretty fast some times when it's just rosy palm but sometimes I don't get off at all during sex cause I've gone to long and it's been enough and I just wanna get some sleep.Your anal leakage is more than likely as Pete said, ass sweat. Keep a pristine ass and realize it just sweat. As long as your clean, it's nothing to worry about.
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haha.. glad I'm normal.I have another thing that I was wondering that maybe the cause of this... could it be that since most of my sexual development years I've been smoking pot, and now that I've quit, for at least a long while, I could just be used to jerking and doing things with my girlfriend while I'm high and I'm just not getting the same sensation as before?I don't know it's just a thought, but please tell me your insights.