Just a little history on me and my issue, I am 19 years old and will be visiting another state in a few months to check out a few college campuses for enrollment next semester. I have a few friends who live here as well, so it will be a little vacation/college hunt for me.
A few months ago, i met this wonderful girl at my friends house. We all hung out with my friends and hers, but it was only a few hours long and it was the first time I had met her. She said for us to add her to our myspaces, and I did. We talked a lot there, and on the phone a few times about random things.
Unfortunately, she was leaving back to her city(which is in another state than me) just 3 days after I met her, so we didn't have another chance to hang out before she left.
I wrote to her a lot, and she suggested i should check out the campus where she lives, as it's one of the best in the state, and that I could just stay at her place or something.
There's something about this girl... she is absolutely gorgeous, doesn't act like girls do here, seems to have her life in check, and we seem to agree on just about any subject.
She was kind of hinting me on the time we met, and by the looks of it she's having 'boy trouble' back where she lives, so this seems like my only window of opportunity to do something.
And honestly, I can't see how a girl this beautiful and flawless girl is single. Im just an average 19 year old, but this is just one of those things we try, regardless if we think we're going to fail or not.
I was thinking of what exactly to do, and my idea was to write a song about her on my guitar. I am fairly good at guitar, and thought of some good lyrics these past couple of days, i could actually write a decent song about this girl.
Is this appropriate? I have never done anything remotely close to this before, as I have had no girlfriends in the past and lack 'high school experience', but that's another story.
Usually I would just say this is too creepy or she doesn't like me, but I would never forgive myself if I didn't try and saw her with another man somewhere down the line.
What do you guys think about this scenario?
Would this be too weird?
Welcome to A2A, still. Women's opinions will be more valuable here, but I think women would find that very romantic.
i think its a lovely idea, and wouldnt' find it creepy at all, if she does, then she isn't the one for you anyway but you have to try as you said, you'd beat yourself up if you didn't.
Get a taste of Old Time Religion..........lick a witch grin<br />
that would be so sweet.
Happiness is an attitude. We either make ourselves miserable, or happy and strong. The amount of work is the same.
It doesn't matter. If she likes you it's sweet. If she doesn't it's creepy. So ya either hit a home run or you strike out.
That's just my opinion.
There is no punishment. There is no reward. There are only consequences.
Update if anyone cares... ive been working on lyrics for this song/poem for over a month now... and boy it is tough!
once i finish the lyrics this week im gonna put chords together for it... im sure that will take awhile.
I won't see her until mid march and so i named the song "My Belated Valentine". Maybe when I finish it i'll give you a sneak peak at it
I trust she'll appreciate all your work!