OK guys, im new here... first let me start by saying my name is kyle, im 20 years old, and im from kentucky/cincinnatti...ive been dating this girl for around 3 1/2 months now... before i begin, keep in mind i have "fallen" for her... i care wit her with ALL my heart, i have since the ever beginning..well, a few days ago is when problems started to occour... i had some personal issues going on, i was so angry with stuff in my life i just COULDNT talk to anyone, including her. (not that i didnt want to talk to her, but i know if i did my temper would get way out of hand, and i didnt want to say anything i didnt mean).. so basicly for 2 days, i ignored her calls, hardly spoke at all... i know i was wrong for doing this, and i know ive probably hurt her...well... her ex boyfriend just got out of jail, and he is buying her old car. i have major security issues ill admit that, i always feel like someones cheating on me. but i honestly have the GUT instinct something is going on behind me...well, she came over last night(after our 2 days of not talking really what so ever) i asked her if she was angry with me, she said she will get over it..... i greeted her with a huge hug, explaining that im sorry and that i do love her..she seemed fine, she even brang me soup and orange juice because i didnt seem that well.. we ended up cuddling on the couch watching a movie...well then she left, and called me when she arrived home...everything SOUNDED fine, we even discussed going to see a movie or going to the fair this week...well, today has came, and i havent even recieved ONE call, or one point of contact whatsoever from her... she said shed call, but hasnt... i just feel like somethings going on! if im going crazy someone slap me in the right direction lolbut i dont know what to do? ever since that 2 days of not talking shes not even really calling me anymore, not even once today? whats the deal? sorry i had to vent but can someone please give me theyre input? thanks..-kyle
Should i leave her?
Don't jump to conclusions, try calling her and see what's up. I can see what your insecurities are telling you, but you still need to have faith in your GF until you find out what happened.
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I agree with AverageJoe. It's easy to jump to conclusions, but they're very often wrong.
maybe she is giving you a bit of distance since you pushed everyone away
maybe she thinks you want it...
but you do need to talk to her for your own sake.
and yes, i would slap you if you were in slapping distance :P
Why don't you call her?
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I side with Cool here, perhaps she's giving you a break b/c you had secluded yourself. Well, definately do not jump to conclusions, OK? Try calling her, find her, talk to her, for your sake.
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i understand that i pushed her away... but the night she was here i asked her if everything was ok, she claimed she will be fine...i mean, i just feel so down heh, i really dont know why. i FEEL that she is doing something behind me. i mean she used to call me from work, her breaks, stuff like that, but for the past 3 DAYS she hasnt called till later in the evening? my instincs tell me maybe shes busy with someone els, which is why shes avoiding me....idk what to do, im afraid to bring the subject up because theres still a chance im wrong, and the last thing i want to do is offend her, i just want to fix this and get things to how they used to be, but im clueless on how to do this..
Get it into the open between you, skittles. She'll notice anyway that you have something on your mind, and if you won't tell her what it is she'll try to guess, just as you are trying to guess her feelings. Two people can really tie themselves ludicrously into knots doing that.