Valentines Day 2009 - an end, a beginning, and....

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... A DIVORCEyep, you heard it here first lolThose of you who have been here for a few years have followed my zany sauga since 2004. The cyber cheating by my wife, her subsiquent e-relationship with a teenaged boy. Our separation, the endless relationships I fell in and out of over the following 3 years. etc etc etcbtw, she's still in that relationship. She sees him once or twice a year in person and the rest is still online. And yeah, she is exactly twice his age. Does that seem a little odd to anyone?But anyway, be that as it may, it's behind me. As of midnight, our divorce became final! and bells rang and children sangYep, my lawyer has this twisted sence of humour so the timing was intentional So, here's me, finally free of the major baggage. She will always be a part of my life because my son will always be the biggest part of my life. She and I get along fine now. We're civil. We occasioanlly even chat but just small talk unless it's about our child.Oh, and I'm like totally retarded in love with this georgeous young lady whom I've been dating for a couple months. I've blown through at least a dozen relationships since my separation and this is the first time something has actually felt real. Out of all those women, I fell for a few and got hurt and a few fell for me and got hurt. This is different.Am I taking my new found non-married status and marching down the isle again? Duh, don't be silly! But coincidental timing of everything is not lost on me.It's only been a few months. We get along really well. We're comforatble together. She is absoluetly genuine and casual, open and honest, and a hell of a good looking lady. Oh, and my family likes her so;VD 2006... still living with the ex though we're broken up and just waiting for her to moveVD 2007... seeing this nice girl I met through online dating. She loves me after only a few weeks and is way to clingy and needy... goneVD 2008... seeing this nice girl I met through online dating. We have a solid intellectual connection. She's very intellegent but socially inept. She loves me but I find she lied to me about a few important matters... goneVD 2009... I love her, that is allAND I LOVE YOU ALL TOO!!happy VD2A2AxoxoMr U

Mr. U I love your attitude. Things happen. Things get better. You take them as they come. Enjoy your new life. I hope your new relationship continues to bloom.

facebook told me this morning. Congrats!

lmaowhere would we be without Facebook?we wouldn't know anything about anyone!!

awww congratulations Mr U, finally :laughing: *cuddles tight*

heres to the rest of your life darlin!!

thanks AngelI'm looking forward to the next chapter

Somehow I had missed your post... congrats.So does all this mean your off the market now... better not.

well, I signed up to a few internet dating sites after the separation with varying degrees of success but I recently deleted all my profiles.

**haha, more like "deleted" those profiles, because they all keep your info after you delete it for statistical purposes, or so they call it, haha.

I'm glad that you're finally moving in the right direction of happiness! Good luck!**

Congrats, it's nice to see you so happy!