Hey. There's this girl I really like. I've had crushes before, but this feels very different from just some crush. I'm not going to say it's love or anything. I've never been in love, so I don't really know, but I feel like she's the perfect girl for me, and there's no one like her. She's kind of nerdy, like me. I can't stop thinking about her. So, basically, I want to get your opinions/advice on her. I want to know if it sounds like she likes me, or sounds like she's flirting with me. We're pretty close. We see eachother a lot.Anyway, sorry if this sounds a little stupid. It sounds stupid to me as I write it all out, and it makes me feel a little stupid. The signs that I'm getting from her, or signs that I'm imagining getting from her, may seem over-analytical over some small thing.When we see eachother, she seems to tease me, a lot. She makes fun of me, and I make fun of her. It's kind of stupid stuff. For example, she'll get a peanut, hold it up to my face and say "this is your brain" and then she crushes it. She pokes me a lot too. She'll take her finger, and poke me in the arm repeatedly saying "poke, poke, poke, poke...". Any time she walks by me, and I'm sitting in an armchair or something, she kicks my feet. I do the same to her. Another sign she seemed to give me is her eating my rice. She can be a little germophobic sometimes. She doesn't like people, especially her brother, to touch her. If, for example, her brother touches something, then she would refuse to touch it. So she's a little weird like that. So, anyway, we had gotten fast food one day, and I had gotten a side of rice with my meal. I had already eaten some of the rice with my fork (and she was aware that I did), and she asked me if she could have some of my rice. She told me to just scoop some of my rice on her plate with my fork. This seemed to be a big sign to me, because she wouldn't do that with just anybody. She'd worry about how I ate off that fork. Anyway, as she ate the rice she would continually ask for more rice as she ran out.This may sound stupid, but she never refuses a game of UNO with me. If other people ask her she might say "no, don't really feel like it right now", but she never says that to me. We do these one on one UNO matches where we let no one else play. Now, I don't really like the game UNO that much. I'd be bored to death if I played UNO with anyone else as much as I play with her. The only reason I play it is because I'm playing with her. And I kind of suspect that it's the same thing with her. There also seems to be a lot of "accidental" touches when shuffling the deck (we just scatter them across the floor and put it back into a pile). I may just be imagining it though.I could go on and on about other small things that I took as signs that she likes me, but it would take up too much room and I don't feel like taking the time to type it all. But, give me your opinion or comments. Does it sound like she likes me? Or do you think that I could just be imagining things? This post probably sounds really stupid, but I just can't stop thinking about these things. Just tell me what you think. thanks.
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Alright, I haven't around TOO long, so I don't know you as well, as some of the others may, however:A) It doesn't sound stupid. It sounds cute, the things you and her do.B) She sounds like a great girl. I wish I could meet a girl like that. Why WOULD she refuse UNO? C) I think that there are obvious (to the outsider) signs of flirting going on, and again, I wish this could happen to me, lol.D) The food thing, if she's as big of a germ freak as you say, seems to be a big deal, that she's okay with YOUR germs, but not even her brothers? Yeh, that's cool, lol.E) It's not over-analytical.F) How can she "take" her finger? G) I love chinese fudz...H) Sorry for so many points, just got sucked in...I) Good luck then, I say, ask her out, or whatever it is that you desire to do!J) =^.^=
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