I think that want I want is reasonable. I mean, I'm not asking for him to change everything about himself. Talk to you later. I need to go to work anyways.
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Blaaah...
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So, is the time your spending with him now worth it?I guess what I've been trying to not say is there's nothing wrong with being with him now, as long as he makes you happy. But, since he's not really fulfilling you, don't limit yourself to him. Don't pass up the whole package from somebody else because you get some scraps from him right now... even if you really like those scraps.
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Well.. If I didn't like him I wouldn't be with him...And... Since nobody is interested in me right now... I don't see why not, and, he does make me happy... Very happy. I just am not sure if it's worth it...
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Only you can decide that.
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Mm.. It's over, I sat down with him today and started asking him questions, and he replied honestly. We decided it was best to discontinue any further contact other than that of friendship... Which I can do, I'll consider this like I do my ex boyfriends, I still talk to them and I consider them good friends. This will be no different. Omg. I miss him... ; ;
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Sorry things didn't work out better for ya. It'll get better with time but you know that already I'm sure.
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Hugs
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Man, I'm sorry Reen. Just read the whole story. At the very least, you guys are being grown-up about it, and maintaining the friendship.
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Well.. Things don't really get better.. You just get used to it, meaning, you don't notice the messed up parts anymore... Me and my ex, Jon, hang out today.. And that whole cycle of him flirting with me is back again... My gut instinct says to not go for it, but... I really can't pass up the opportunity, can I? Then again, he might just be trying to mess with my feelings as well... Like Felipe did. Ugh. I hate men. But I love them so much... ; ;
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Why not hang with some new ones instead of exes?
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Believe it or not, I have confidence issues. XDAnd I can't even ask this cashier at Walmart for his number, even though I am totally lusting over him... Awkward.It's not that simple for me. I can't just go out and meet people, that makes for awkward conversation. And that's awkward.
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You're not alone. But are there any gay social activities in your area?
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Other than the gay pride parade in June?I have no idea... I've only ever been to Pride, but, any social Gay activities to me sounds like a giant orgy... ._.;I would much prefer a emotional relationship, rather than focusing on the sexual aspects.Speaking of the sexual aspects, since I am versatile, I think I am going to stick with being a top for a while... Since I'm normally the more submissive partner. That could maybe make me more confident as well, not only in the bedroom, but, asking for numbers, etc.
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From what I've heard, most social gay activities are not at all giant orgies, but they are opportunities for meeting people without the awkwardness of not knowing if they are gay and how they might react.
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Hehehe, yeah, I guess, I really wouldn't know. I'm just going by what I know. That being that most gay guys are only in it for the sex...
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well, are you in it for the sex, or is it just what you like? i wouldn't think that all are, i actually wouldn't think that most are, maybe a small fraction of them.
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Well, I only ever have sex with someone if I like them that much and want to get THAT close to them. XD