I'm not typically a jealous girl. And I don't like being selfish... but man I want my baby ALL TO MYSELF. Honestly, I love his friends and all. They're funny, sweet, kind, and stupid but... seriously. He works alot all ODD hours of the night so I understand hanging out with his friends is a vacation or time off to chill and relax. But I get impatient sometimes. They're always coming over to smoke something or listen to Plies or Young Jeezy or whatever nonsense like that. And I seriously hate when he says at like.. 9pm "I gotta go (with the guys) I'll call you later" and then calls me at 3am in the morning! I'm like the what the freak, trick, i'm sleeping! And then gets mad at me when I fall asleep on him after the first half hour. I'm like "well sorry, babez for falling asleep at 3am when i have to wake up for school at 6:30!" I try not to sound immature and complain. He says I focus too much on that but I can't help it. He'll be 23 Saturday and I'm still 17.. I try not to come off "immature". But I know I sound immature when I'm like "i miss youuuuu!" which I really do =/. And when I get that puppy dog face and voice he can't help but call me (haha works every time)I do have friends of my own but I always make sure to make time for him since he's been so needy lately. And what disturbs me even more is that they are ALWAYS HIGH when he calls me. That's even more annoying. Like I can't understand a word he's saying talking about "i betchu taste like chocolate!" Then he gets all freaky deak nasty lol well that's kind of fun but still. I just wish he'd make time at normal hours so I could sleep when people are supposed to sleep. Our schedules clash sometimes. He works from 10pm to 7am which is when he calls me to talk to him. I wake up at 6:30 for school. Get out at 12:15. Work till 5pm and get home around 6 so I'm usually beat.
Always with "the guys"
"Isso é como nós latinas/meninas pretas fazemos. Vá ou flua.. ya digg?"
D'oh!17 and 23? That's whack. 23?! He's in a total different world than you. He wouldn't happen to work @ wal-mart would he?He sounds like a bum. I lol'd at the " I betchu taste like chocolate " hahahaha I'm laughin' right now at it....but, I mean no matter how high he is he should be able to talk without mumble and be fully understandable unless he's doin' lines of coke.Btw, I have nothing constructive to say other than learn to cope with it.
I gotta ask, do you and him ever go out? Or is there something I'm missing here? From what I'm reading, your relationship is surviving only through a phone. Is this a long distant relationship?My only tip so far would be to talk to him about how you feel. What I'm worried is that if it's this bad now, what's going to happen when you get to college later?I wish I had more to say, but maybe I will if I knew what the answer to my questions are. I personally don't mind at all that my boyfriend goes sees his friends. He's a guy and I know he needs time for himself to be a guy with just his guy buddies. He makes time for me, so I can't complain when he wants to spend with the fellas. Plus, it's even easier for me due to the fact that his friends are my friends too.If he's not making time for just you, then I can understand why this is a problem. After all, you're his special lady, not another one of his friends. Try to see if you two can find even ground and talk about it.
No matter how gifted, you alone can not chang...
I do agree with CockRocker on the being in two different worlds thing. But i think you might be on the higher plane then him honestly. Either way there is a big difference and it can be hard to cope with in your relationship. Ive heard you say your nuts for him a million times but if you want me to be completely honest, i have a bad feeling about it. I know i dont know you or him, and i know ive never even really talked to you much in the past years, but i have listened to you and i am very well aware of who you are and something just tells me this isnt a good situation. But i could very well be wrong and either if im right, you need to find out for yourself. Anyway i hope everything works out for you.