Earlier in this thread, a few months back I posted about a relationship I was in that broke up and she ended up going with my friend.Well, few months go on, we're still friends but everything is awkward. But when I was in the relationship, my friends kept telling me, 'shes an attention whore dude.' and such, I didn't believe them because I thought she was the most amazing person since day 1.Now that I look back on it, I notice, wow, she really is an attention whore and obnoxious. Now, I usually stay out of these talks, but 1 day, 3 friends of mine and I were talking, and they brought her up and said about how she was an attention whore. I added a few comments and agreed with him and 1 of the 3 people told her which she found out.She didn't say anything though. A few days go by, she asks me help on something, and we get in an argument about it and ends up saying I'm condescending, I ask her what in the hell shes talking about; then she switches topic about the bad things I said about her. Apparently she was waiting for me to confront her about it and said that she nearly cried because I was considered her friend that she could really only talk to about things; and told me that she never wants to speak to me again. We're in a class together, and we're in the same lab group. The only chatter we have is more of a, 'professional/co-worker' talk rather than something relaxed and off-topic from school.I never knew that she valued the friendship with me that much but regardless, knowing that or not, I shouldn't have said those things regardless. I felt like shit when she told me how she felt about that and for the next few days, I felt like complete shit, depressed; but I told myself I wasn't going to let her ruin me like that, I learned from my mistake and it's going to be a life changing experience for me.Well, that's the story, and now for the question...It's been 1 month now, we still don't talk to eachother, but I'm still having thoughts in the back of my head every now and then about her. I sort've still love her, but I sort've hate her. I'd rather forget her all together, but I don't know. There's just so many mixed emotions about her.Any help?
Ending and Forgetting
There is no such thing as "sort of love her" either you love her whole or you don't. It's obvious that you may still love her besides her ways to me. I say if you REALLY love her, talk to her. Though truthfully, sometimes it's best to leave shattered glass shattered instead of hurting yourself picking up the pieces. Remember, you need to do whats best for you. If she caused you grief, she may just do it again. Though I believe in second chances. :smile: