iv got a problemmm basically in the past 6 or 7 months wheneva iv had sex iv been coming in like 1 or 2 minutes which is getting ridiculous. when i get oral or a handjob i last around 15-20 minutes and until about 6 months ago i seemed to be lasting at least 5 minutes whenever I had sexits really worrying me whatever i try i cant control myselfi really want to last longer even if its just like 5 minutes againis there any way i can do this?thank u
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Coming too quick
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Have you tried masturbating before having sex? This seems to help some people.
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Id agree with the masturbating before sex thing. Id do it like an hour or two before sex. Other than that i would try to keep your mind off sex while having sex, the actual cumming part. I think someone posted here awhile back to focus on something else like her thigh's, or hair, or something to distract you from thinking about cumming.
Also if you feel like your going to come too early you could always pull out and pull the whole "im switching positions" routine to delay it.
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Dude,When I was much younger, I had that same problem. I can tell you that it does get better and you learn to last longer the more you have it. It’s like anything else. Most men have to learn how to control it. The feeling can just be too overwhelming it feels so much different than when you’re getting a hand or blow job. Nothing compares to the feeling… Ever! I know a lot of people think its crap, but I had gone to the doctor when I was younger and was told just to use a desensitizing cream. I picked one up at the local adult store and used it until my endurance built up. I know some guys can go on forever, but I usually pop after about 15-20 minutes of thrusting and changing into many different positions.Hope this helps!
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Have you tried a delay condom like Durex Performa? They numb the tip of the penis a bit so that you last longer.