can you be born with a loose vagina? why do I get no pleasureable sensations from being penetrated? please don't tell me to use clitoral stimulation. i want to know why i don't feel any erotic sensatons just from penetration like many women.
No pleasure from being penetrated
Welcome to A2A, AmandaRayne!
Lots of women don't get much pleasure from just penetration. It's not because of a loose vagina. You may find experimenting with different positions helps.
who are these women besides me? lol
you always hear how penetration is supposed to feel good and women on the sex boards seem to really enjoy it and report feeling pleasureable sensations. i believe that i am in the minority
im not sure if im able to list a position here but if im not im sorry. Try sitting on top with your legs stretched out from. this allows deep deep penetration. and I know you dont want to here about clitoris stimulation but get your partner or do it yourelf where you touch yourself there just to get you going. When you feel pleasure from the clitoris stimulation it will cause your muscles to cramp making you tighter. This will make you feel much more pleasure from being penetrated. If you want to orgasm without clitoris stimulation slowly stop touching yourself when you are getting enough pleasure from being penetrated. Trust me I know your pain. Hope this works
Originally Posted By: AmandaRayne...why do I get no pleasureable sensations from being penetrated?
My first question would be to make sure that you do get pleasurable sensations when your clit is rubbed?
One of the ways me and my gf like having sex the best is for her to be be on top of me, and then the two of us actually just like to talk and just slowly rock back and forth. We are actually not concentrating on the sex at all, that's just going on with our body parts together while we are talking and kissing, etc. She does position herself and sorta lean over me so that the gentle rocking "feels nice" down there. After a while, (sometimes 10-15 minutes) it just begins to feel so intense and nice in our sex parts that we start concentrating more on that. You might say at that point we move from having a conversation to having sex.
We are both only 16, and even doing it this way she might only have an orgasm maybe 1-in-5 times while we are doing it, but then I make sure to take care of her needs after I'm "done" so to speak.
I don't know if that helps, especially because it's coming from a guy so I don't know what "penetration" even feels like for a girl. But I don't think it's actually my penis going into her that causes anything there to feel wonderful. I think it's more our lower bodies rubbing against each other that she relly enjoys.
Yeah, I get plenty of pleasure from clitoral just none from penetration.
Once when I had a sex partner, my clitoris went totally numb once he penetrated me. Actually, my clit is less sensitive during penetration
what if I have a dildo, what should I do to feel pleasure?
I have the same exact problem. I feel nothing, even when I finger myself. And it also takes a lot of pressure on my clit and rapid motions, so rubbin git during sex doesn't help. -_-
How big is the penis/dildo/object you are using? If your using your fingers that may not be enough. Maybe you need deeper penetration? Maybe more girth on the object you are using. Studies have been done showing that a thick penis gives just as much if not more pleasure than a skinny long penis. Have you tried to find your g-spot? Certain positions if you're with a guy can stimulate that. You can find it yourself with your fingers too. (mssg me if u have ?'s)
If you're having sex try closing your legs to create a "tighter" space for the penis to penetrate.