Spanking 'brings couples together' * 30 March 2009 by Linda GeddesSPANKING is stressful at first, but it could bring consenting couples closer together. That's the implication of two studies of hormonal changes associated with sadomasochistic (S&M) activities including spanking, bondage and flogging.Brad Sagarin at Northern Illinois University in DeKalb and colleagues measured levels of the stress hormone cortisol in 13 men and women at an S&M party in Arizona, before, during and after participating in activities. During S&M scenes, cortisol rose significantly in those receiving stimulation, but dropped back to normal within 40 minutes if the scene went well. There was no change in those inflicting the activity.At an S&M event in Colorado, testosterone was measured in 45 men and women. It increased significantly in receiving women only. Donatella Marazziti of the University of Pisa, Italy, says the boost may help women cope with the aggressive nature of S&M activities, or that it could be another sign of stress. In both studies, couples who said the party went well also reported increases in relationship closeness (Archives of Sexual Behavior, DOI: 10.1007/s10508-008-9374-5).It's important to note that levels of both hormones dropped back down in couples who enjoyed the experience, Marazziti says. "When sexual intercourse is consensual it is not stressful - even if it is extreme sex."Richard Wiseman, a psychologist at the University of Hertfordshire in Hatfield, UK, adds that almost any shared activity is likely to promote interpersonal closeness. "It doesn't have to be tying up your partner or placing clamps on their nipples, it could be something as simple as cooking a meal together or even doing the housework as a duo," he says.Nick Neave, a psychologist at the University of Northumbria, UK, says the results are interesting, but future studies should control for whether participants experienced orgasm, which is associated with reduced stress and an increase in hormones associated with partner-bonding and affection.
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Spanking 'brings couples together'
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1.I saw the title, I knew instantly that it was started by you. I knew the same thing about sex with robots, both of these before I even glanced further right and saw your name.2.The day housework becomes as much of a turn on as sex for me, Im going to stick the .357 in my mouth and splatter my brains all over the ceiling so someone else can clean it up.That being said, me doing some shit around the house, especially dishes, especially if I just get up and do them after dinner and she never mentions it and sees me doing it...This does seem to be a turn on for her.
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"The day housework becomes as much of a turn on as sex for me, Im going to stick the .357 in my mouth and splatter my brains all over the ceiling so someone else can clean it up."First let me say I share this sentiment. >>>"me doing some shit around the house, especially dishes, especially if I just get up and do them after dinner and she never mentions it and sees me doing it...This does seem to be a turn on for her."I have noticed this as well. It leads we to the inevitable conclusion that women, in general, are fucked up creatures.>>>"I saw the title, I knew instantly that it was started by you. I knew the same thing about sex with robots,..."Ahhh shit!... I've become predictable.
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I think you need an edit, as you forgot to copy new quotes before pasting in the second point of discussion.Otherwise what you said makes no sense since your arguing both sides of the same topic. One is great and agreeable the other is that it makes girls out to be stupid.I think you meant to scroll slightly lower in my psot and copy the me doing housework leads to her being turned on portion for point number 2.
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Thank you for catching my gaffe. I corrected my post.
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This article talks of spanking each other but says nothing of her spanking my monkey. Fuck this article. A hand job makes me happier than anything, except a blow job, an that makes me fucking joyous.Well that and pounding the shit out of her soaked snatch till its swollen and sore, then dumping a load of jizz into to act as a salve before I roll over and go to sleep.So to sum it up.3 handjob2 actual sex1 blow jobThese are the 3 greatest things in life, funny they all end in orgasm.