I recently have just started going out with this guy. He is my friends brother and is a couple years older than me, Im 20 hes 24. He asked me out and because I wasnt ready he gave me his number and told me to call him a when I was ready. A week later he messaged me to just see where he stood. I responded positivelty and a few days later I went out with him and his friends, a very small scale evening, but nice and small so we got to quitely sociallise without the pressure. I went out with him one and one at the end of that week and a few days later we had our first kiss. We were taking things slow and within a week after that we had made out but getting to know each other as well. So in total from the night he had asked me out it had been 3 weeks. From the last time I saw him in that week things were going well, really well! I was going to see him in a couple of days later at a mutuals friends house for a small party but he didnt know many people. He came but was acting really weird towards me. He didnt drink, left early and avoided eye contact with me all night. I thought it could have been just that his sister was there and we had never been together with her. But thats the thing, no one could tell that we had been seeing each other, and normally he is affectionate in small ways like putting his hand on the top of the knee or the small of the back. At the end of the night was the first time he really spoke to me. It was a saturday night and he asked to meet early the following week. I said yes and he left. The following late afternoon I asked him if he wanted to do something the following afternoon. He messaged back saying that he was sorry that he had stuff to do and maybe later in the week. I said no worries to contact me when he was free. its now Thursday night, he knows I work weekend nights so I dont know what the deal is. Is he into me? should I contact him? or should i wait for him to make the next move and if he doesnt too bad for him?