So here's my story, I have been with ex gf for 8 months, we broke up last october and it was me who called it. I regret it to the max and I still think of her everyday till now. In December, I dated a girl and I like her or do I ? I don't know myself, I can say I used her to cover up my ex but then again I do not know. I am still with this current girlfriend, and I always want to ditch her and go back with my ex but there's too many things I have to think about like all her friends hate me now including her parents most likely. I do not want to dump my current girlfriend due to the fact she treats me very well and I'd have to be the biggest asshole to dump her and go back with my ex -gf. i know my ex gf still loves me and wants to get back with me, but who knows? I'm stuck in a dillema here... should I get back with her or should I stay with my current gf and make the best out of it? Im stuck in the weirdest position ever and I can't make a decision even thinking about it day after day.
Ex gf or current gf?
Welcome to A2A, lovesong.I'm not sure there's much in your post to help with a decision. One important issue I think is why you broke up with your ex.
I think thats really true, Why did you break up with your ex? Usually, that is what can realy tell you about a relationship, there must have been some reason why you didnt work. From the sounds of it though, you cant just stay in a relationship just because they treat you well, if you dont love her or can not see yourself with your current gf, aren't you just going to hurt then in the long run? She is going to be able to tell eventually that what she feels might not be mutual.
Echoing the previous comments that you must have left her for a reason - and it's unlikely that reason has gone.Also one other thing to consider is what you (and possibly her) have done with other people since you split up. If you and her were to get together that question will ultimately be answered.For example, if you have slept with your current gf, your ex is gonna want to know that, and could potentially be slightly hurt by it.The same goes for you. If she has slept with someone else you may not be able to accept it.Just something to think about.
Dont move back.. move forward! If you dont like the girl you`re with then maybe you should break up with her and be single for awhile.
Happiness is an attitude. We either make ourselves miserable, or happy and strong. The amount of work is the same.