I've been going out with this guy for about 3 months now, we met in January and we both had feelings for each other but he was going away, so we kinda had a one night stand, and he'd already said that he didn't want to get into a relationship whilst he was away studying, but it happened anyway. Now, he's coming home tonight and I see him tomorrow and we've been talking about sex and he said that he wants to have unprotected as we'll both feel it better. I'm a little worried, I know he's clean and such (he told me) and I am on the pill but I'm still not sure. I've only had sex with one other guy and that was my ex and my current boyfriend has had way more gf's and had sex quite a few times too.
I think if you are uncomfortable with it he should respect that, or he's not worth your time.
The fact that he says he is clean does not necessarily mean he is, and that may be at the back of your mind making you unsure (very reasonably).
You've got the pussy, you've got the power if you want him to wear a condom make him wear a fucking condom. He's lucky getting any anyway.
There's a old Redd Foxx joke that went something like...
Confucius say, is better to be libidinous and frustrated than satisfied and worried.
There is no punishment. There is no reward. There are only consequences.
Originally Posted By: Sarah-chan
I know he's clean and such (he told me)
Don't believe everything someone tells you. Now I am not saying he is lying, but well as I guy I can tell you it's not umcommon to lie to get what we want. Plus there are some STD's that don't show but you can still carry... like Genital Warts and Herpies just to name a few.
Point being, when it comes to something as important as your health it's not worth trusting in someones word. Take appropriate precautions and KNOW you'll be safe. :smile:
<span style="color: green">"Don't be a Dork! Wrap your Pork!" </span><br /><br />
Thats hwy they win in a divorce! they get half the cash and all the pussy!
Its not fair I tell ya! but in my divorce, it was a pussy I wanted nothing to do with anyway. She could keep it but giving her 3 of 4 cars and my trailer and the truck I pulled it with.....What a crock of shit, the bitch couldnt even drive a stick or tow a trailer, the trailer to this day sits in a field her grandpa owns and has yet to be used.
Let's agree to respect each others views, no matter how wrong yours may be.
He told me he was clean by telling me that at his corse they have to learn to take blood and check it for any signs of anything.
But thanks guys, I'll just talk to him about it when I see him soon.