So I had my big "Sexy 18" yesterday as my hairdresser kept calling it. It was awesome and amazing. My mom through this gigantor shindig for me and I got to dress all pretty and what not and get my nails done and my hair did. I actually looked my age for once in my life LOL sike! Still have a baby face.Anyway it was such a great party and all of my old friends and people who I grew up with and knew me since I was a baby were there. And I actually felt 18 for like... a couple of hours. Everyone wore black and white and I wore this OD bright red dress but it was cute. And heels... that's new. But really upset me was that my family table was EMPTY. Like... completely empty, except for my little brother. My "dad" didn't come. My "grandmother" didn't come. NONE of my cousins came. And my two older brothers didn't come. I walked in and saw the empty seats at their table and was like... wow... are you serious? And the thing is I told them I was having a celebration for my 18th and graduation for OVER a year. I had people who knew me since the womb who flew in from CUBA and Florida and Delaware and Georgia who came to see me. People who were on their hospital bed with aching backs walking with a cane. And my own "family" couldn't even come... they didn't even call. They suck...But it's all good cause I don't need them anyway snap snap snap in Z formation. No but really it was a bummer and I'm trying to decide if I should make them feel bad or just leave it alone. But it does hurt... cause this isn't the first important thing to me that they've missed. I don't think I'll even bother inviting them to my graduation let alone telling them what school I got accepted into. I should just leave and let them discover that OH EM GEE WE DO KNOW THAT GIRL NAMED ABIGAIL. Unbereviable. They could have at least come CP time. =/And it's ok if you guys forgot too. I'm used to it lol. =p
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Really wanna make them feel bad
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I know how you feel. At my graduation, my 'family' table had my gf at the time, a cousin and his gf. My parents and my sister decided to go on holiday that week. It hurts but you need to do something about it. Either choose to get your revenge or forget about it. The last thing you want to do is hold a grudge.
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Happy Birthday Abi! I didn't forget. I went home for the weekend and didn't have internet :smile:
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Its late but "happy b'day" :smile:
( :frowning: sorry for being late)
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Happy late birthday, Abi!
And don't try for revenge - just shake the dust from your feet.
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Oh yeah, have a BIRTHDAY PRESENT!!
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runs in, looks at the time HAPPY BIRTHDAY...whew
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HAPPIEST BIRTHDAY ABI!!!!!!!I have a feeling that the next few years when you're in college are going to be great for you. And as for those who don't come through for you, it's their loss.
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As normal I am late butHAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!
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Thanks s much guys! You always know how to make me feel better. =)
Thanks Bob! lol wow talk about oldie.
Hehe thanks Eddie :grin:
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Happy birthday Abbi!
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HAPPY late BIRTHDAY!
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It's ok boo boo. I did get your email and I replied back. Weird you didn't get it . I also spoke about your father in there... I'm praying for you boo.