I am in a relationship with a girl that I care about greatly and we are very close. I do have some questions though regarding her inexperience in life. She is not used to many different things in life, like fine dining... How can I decide whether it is worth sticking through it to "teach" her. I am getting tired of having to show her so much because I ultimately just want to go out and enjoy my 20s... Help please.
Questions about attraction and relationships
Count yourself lucky part of the fun of new relationship is showing and learning new stuff about life and each other. Soon enough you both know all there is to know about each other you all know the same level of shit about life and current events and neither of you will have anything interesting to say to the other. Showing people new things is the fun part of getting to know them.
There is no punishment. There is no reward. There are only consequences.
You're absolutely right!! Thats the fun part about relationships is to grow with eachother. I bet she is also teaching you things that you didnt know either.
And Jon, would you rather have a girl who wants you to fine dine her ALL the time?? Nope!! That could get expensive! If you can be yourself around her.. and enjoy spending time with her.. then there is nothing to worry about! Sometimes people in relationships question whether or not this is the right thing for them every once in awhile. I think this is that time for you.
Keep strong buddy!!!
Happiness is an attitude. We either make ourselves miserable, or happy and strong. The amount of work is the same.
I have been. She and I are closing in on 8 months of being together... sorry I mean 9 months. I think she is super great but man things are just not right in my mind. I am always fighting with her and it is not like I want to, I just do. I love the thought of coming home to a woman but I am not sure if she is the woman I want to be coming home to. I could see any woman that loves me doing that... I feel bad b/c I am already wanting to look around and see whats out there.
If a relationship is only ever a fucking fight, its not worth it, cut her loose and look around.
All relationships have some downs and arguments and fighting, but if that is the rule rather than the exception, its time to end it.
Let's agree to respect each others views, no matter how wrong yours may be.