Still single.
hi,
i've recently just turned 19 years of age and i'm still currently single. i've had girlfriends in the past, nothing serious but that has been almost two years ago now. i'm in full time work and i could be about to get my own place. all my friends now seem to have g/fs except me and it's beginning to bug me.
why am i still single?
i know a lot of people, i go out, i have money and i'm not exactly ugly. whats up!?
Well, are you confident? Are you asking girls out when you go out? Meeting new girls, getting their numbers or anything? Are there any girls you're particularly interested in (or have been interested in)? If there are, then you take initiative and ask them out/to hang out and see how it goes, I guess.
i thought i was confident, tbh because i've had past g/fs.however, these were all girls i met in school. now i'm in work i find it a lot harder as i'm not seeing the same girl day in day out.i guess when i go out i find it hard to approach a girl and talk to her one-on-one, plus it's pretty hard with loud music, other guys etc. it's happened before but the girls have approached me and we've hooked up but they've all been one night stands, i'd like a bit more.i just find it annoying my other friends have g/fs through the internet as thats one thing i don't wanna do, call me traditional but i'd like to meet girls by going out.
I don't think it's anything to worry about - I reached 20 and had still never been kissed. Only two years later I'm now planning m wedding!
congrats.if you don't mind me asking, how did you meet your other half?and what did you do to go from never being kissed to getting married?
I do know what you mean. My best friend is a great catch but since her work environment changed she doesnt have much contact with guys. Its not that there is anything wrong with her it purelly that meeting guys at clubs and stuff is easy for a one night thing but anything further is more difficult. I find the best relationships or the best way to start one is through friends of friends. Go out with your friends who have girlfriends. When you make friends with the girlfriend and start hanging out with HER friends. You will get to know them slowly and more likely to work then at the clubs. Take advantage of the fact that so mnay of your friends are in constant contact with girls who they are not allowed to like, its like shooting season!
Originally Posted By: kobe365if you don't mind me asking, how did you meet your other half?and what did you do to go from never being kissed to getting married? We met at a church youth event that we were both at. I don't really know what I "did", I guess there's just someone out there for everyone and when you meet them things just work. I think my real problem in the past was that I was too shy, but with my fiancee I feel comfortable about everything.
