so as most of you know, if you've read my past posts, me and my girlfriend had a little scare. Now I was just wondering... if she's not ready to ask her mom to help her get birth control does that mean she's not ready?I mean I'm still kind of nervous to use condoms because I've like gained this paranoia of what if she does get pregnant? and all that shit. I mean if she were to id be by her side the whole time, even though she said shed want to get an abortion, but i dont know im sort of rambling now...
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Not ready?
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well, she might not want to ask her mom, because sex is a relatively uncomfortable subject to talk about with parents, . Next time she goes to see her doctor, she can ask him/her, and don't be nervous of condoms. You're not nervous that in the next second a bomb will fall on your head, are you? It can happen too, but 99% chance it won't, you know what I mean? I'm not sure if Walgreens-esque pharmacies will sell birth control w/o scripts, but they do sell condoms.
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Used properly, condoms are safer than the pill. The two together is even better.I think if you are very nervous about pregnancy you're not ready.
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A good point. nods head knowingly
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I agree that if you can't accept pregnancy, you're not ready.
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If both of your aren't mature enough to seek out and use birth control your not mature enough for sex.
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use the pill and condoms please..... I didnt tell my mum when I was having sex but I started when I was 19. I was happy to wait though and used both types of contraception despite protest from my ex. 2 of my cousins though had children by accident. One was 18 when she got pregnant since she was only on the pill but the pill is really unreliable. It can eaily be effected my other medications and substances like antibiotics, assmar puffers and even a glass of wine. (which is how both of them got pregant, the other cousin was 28 though and was with a steady partner, BUT still even she made the mistake).
