Im 18 years old and when i was about 15 i had raging hormones and had real sexual urges, i also had a girlfriend at the time and i had no idea really about masturbation at all. Whatever, we broke up and i was still a virgin. Im now 18 and still a virgin and also yet to masturbate, i have wet dreams quite frequently but seem not to have any conscious sex drive, and on the rare occasion i actually have an erection and i attempt to masturbate i pee. It seems that this issue is only common with the younger ones and thats got me a bit worried. I plan to lose my virginity before much longer but i want to want it more (sex drive) and want it to fucking work right... i need to get my sex life on track. When i spend time with my current girlfriend hugging kissing etc, i get a discharge. what is that? sorry if this seems really dumb i know that all of my mates masturbate regularly and im getting more and more concerned about it
What the heck is going on with my penis
The discharge is fine I got the same thing with my girlfriend, it's just annoying but it's a good sign that everything is working alright. It's nothing more than some fluids that come out of the penis when a man is sexually aroused (evolutionary, it's point is to make the road ready for the semen and make the insertion into the vagina easier). ( Often referred to or called Pre-Cum)
I've never heard about your other problem, the peeing thing, so I can't help you with that, sorry, but I'm sure others can. I'm not sure I get it though: you pee whilst in erected state? I can't even do that. Or does it go somewhat flacid and then you pee? Have you tried with an empty blatter?
Welcome to A2A, Francis.
The discharge you are experiencing is called "pre-ejaculatory fluid" and is commnly referred to as "pre-cum." While it does not normally carry any sperm cells capable of impregnating, if you have recently ejaculated either by masturbation or intercourse, there can be some stray cells in your urethra that are picked up in the pre-cum and discharged from your penis during sexual arousal. Pre-cum has two functions: to neutralize the acidic environment of your urethra (caused by urine) and as a lubricant to help with penile insertion into the vagina.
Not all males produce pre-cum and of those that do, the amount varies from individual to individual. What you are experiencing is normal.