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So I stayed the day over at my GF's house and we were exploring with each other. I just found out like she sexually scratches. I'm not an entire fan of this, but seeing my girlfriend get that much please that she has to emit physical contact with me tells me I'm doing something right. Is anyone here a sexual scratcher? I think it's kind of a turn on, if I do say so myself. I'm just worried about getting hurt :blush: .

Here's another one!

I have this huge, huge, huge boob fetish. Most guys like boobs. Some find fat unattractive, but I am completely and utterly obsessed with hers. She is a DD, and has a great body. But when it comes down to it, boobs are my thing. I can literally sit there for hours playing with them. Here's a thing I'd like to know, does anyone get (preferably girls) extreme pleasure from nipple flicking? Because I tried it to her, and it was like... a feeling of great surprise and happiness XD From me I mean, because the reaction from her was overwhelming pleasure.

Later that day we went to the movies and we saw Star Trek (GREAT MOVIE, I watched it with her for my second time). She likes to rub my lips with her fingers, so I put her finger in my mouth and sucked it to see what would happen. Apparently this sexually stimulates her. Again, movies, so I did it more subtly. Is this weird or awkward? I thought it was hilarious, knowing that I'm gunna be with this girl for the rest of my life and I'm still finding new ways to pleasure her.

And, do girls find men's asses attractive? I'm not being harsh with that term btw, but She likes mine. Trust me, I found out the hard way. But now I'm worried that this will combine with sexual scratching XD

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Yep, my exgirlfriend was definetly into scratching. Either way, me scratching her or she liked scratching me. She did it ridiculously hard, not to complain, but it'd leave marks and occassionally bleed a bit. It doesn't particularly hurt, so I wouldn't worry about that. Especially in-the-moment, it just feels good and not painful (though I guess it depends on the person)Yeah, I'm not too sure on the fingersucking thing. If she likes it then that's good and it doesn't matter if it's weird or awkward (how does it make you feel - awkward?). My girlfriend used to suck on my finger. I guess a lot of girl's find guy's asses attractive. I have no idea why personally, but I've known a lot of girls who openly admit it.Sounds like a nice weekend, anyways

Oh it was the -Most- amazing experience ever. Knowing that there's endless exploration. Her sucking on my finger is a turn on for me but I do it to her because her reactions funny

Ahhhhhh... The beauty of young love. Exploration, endless possibilities, romance. Flash forward a few years and your praying for 'em to get called away for work or family so you can have the house to yourself.Ahhhhhh... The beauty of being home alone.

Geez Scotty......Bitter Party of one? Bitter Party of one?TO THE ORIGINAL POSTER.... Try to wear your scratches with pride.. it's a sign that you had awesome screech monkey sex and it was gooooooooood! I did.

No, no... no. Ya still love 'em ya just want a break from 'em. Ya know be able to watch something without hearing, "I don't know how you can watch the stuff." Or just be able to run to town without telling anyone, "I'm going to town. Do you need anything?" cause ya know the answer is coming back yes and it's not going to be something simple. And your thinking, "all I wanted to do was run down and get some tea with some good QuickTrip ice." Ya still love 'em... ya just wanna get the hell away from 'em... for awhile.

Oh....
Okay!

Friday, night we get home, have dinner, and she heads to the bathroom.
I say Julz, Im gonna go get a drink, want one while Im out?
the reply?
yes! a large mnt dew with ice, and could ya get me some pads while your out? I just started a week early and do not have any!
Its never anything simple. I wanted a drink, Now I got to go to the store and get that? Fuck man!
To answer the question, of course I did, its not the first time Iv gotten her that shit. I only complain because i wanted to go to a store thats 30 seconds away by car, and now I had to go 4 fucking miles to a store to get the pads. a store mind you, not a fucking gas station with fountain drinks that was on my list of places to go, but fucking walmart, I fucking hate walmart!
THats several traffic lights, all the fucking people, all the traffic, all the bullshit.
I hate that shit, but I do love my wife, and did it with out bitching!
well with out bitching to her, or until now.

To the OP:
scratches and biting are good things, stop being a pussy, Iv got blood stains on my sheets from bites and scratches!

Yeah, but do you ever want a break from her. Ya know just some alone time. Some time when you don't have to be considerate of your partners needs.Maybe I'm a horrible person but there are a lot of times that I just don't want to be around anybody, regardless how I feel about them.I had the best dream I've ever had this last weekend. The dog and I were snoozing on the bed and Nature was on TV, it was the one about Death Valley. I was dreaming it was just the dog and I in the truck driving through the shit they were describing, there where no phones, no wives, no mothers, no projects, no jobs... just me and the dog on the open road. It was the best dream I've ever had.

I have a good wife but I quite often feel the same way, Scotty.

I really wish I could just take some time and take off by myself a head to points unknown but you can't tell your partner that. I don't think many of them would be to understanding about it, my wife included.

Once a year I take my older kids backpacking, me and them (actually just him, the oldest is not interested in going in to the back country but is showing some interest in going this year with us)and one other time I go alone, 13 miles in, during the week when no people are there. Fish, walk, read, spend 3 days alone in the woods at 12000 feet. Maybe if ya said iM leaving on this day and will be back on this day....Course I was doing this for years before I met my wife. SHe never says shit about the trip with my kids because its me spending time with my kids, she never says shit about me going alone because I actually go, I take pics, I stink like campfires and sweat when I come back. She knows Im going, that i have been going for long before i met her, and that Im not out cheating or fucking around.Maybe? just maybe you can work out something similar with yours once a year for a few days.

If you let her have a vacation by herself, then she can't complain if you have one. (Well, she can't complain too loudly.)

Allow me to take the position of his wife..AHEM...Why do I get one vacation and you get two?!you get the one where you leave by yourself and you get another one where I leave and you get to stay home alone!thats what you want! You want to be away from me! your vacation is NOT being with ME!You CAN NOT WIN an argument with a woman, even when being fair and trying to even shit out, your still coming out ahead and thats bad! Its impossible. What should be a minor concern, always turns into a major you do not love me bullshit discussion, Im an expert at it, I used to go through it all the time. When I found one that I did not have to play those games with and took shit at face value and did not want to fight and start shit, I kept her!Any woman that wants to play that shit can do so at any time, it can always be turned around against you.

What the G-man said. It'll be a "you just don't want to be around me" thing. Which is true to some degree but not because I don't love her. It's because I'm a selfish bastard who wants a break from considering other peoples needs, wants, requirements, emotions, feelings, bureaucracies, moods, greeds, disorders, medical conditions, attitudes, legal standings, etc, etc, etc. I don't mean I want a break from just my wife I mean a break from all the people I have to deal with and consider on a daily basis.I know it's not going to happen but it's nice to dream and talk about.

Because I started doing it since I was a kid, I get to keep doing it I actually did it on my bike in grade school. I lived about 2 miles from the local canyons, tell mom Im spending a night at a friends, head to the canyons instead. Once I got a car, it just led me to hiking and packing in alone in further better locations. Iv always needed some time alone to wander the hills and space the fuck off, smoke a fatty and sit by a small fire in the night wondering what the hell that noise was I heard a few yards off in the dark just outside of the reach of the fire light.I do have an idea for you though.You have a whole bloodline to take advantage of.How much does she know about it and its customs?Maybe you need some sort of ritual soul searching?I know little about it and even less about your own heritage, how much does she know? Mayhaps you can come up with an semi valid excuse to wander in the hills for a few days alone?

She knows to much, she's in to deep...

Then this is where ya need a friend.Honey, Im going packing with my buddy! be gone for 3 days, this is where we are going, this is when we are going, see ya when I get back, love ya bye!Course the friend has to be willing to lie, and say he went with ya, take a camera out on a trip to town and take some pics of you and your buddy, stash it for use on your return from your trip so it appears you went with him.make sure no landmarks can be seen, just area similar to where ya say your going, then take that same camera and take pics on your trip as well of landmarks int hat area where you go..alone.

Be openly (to her) bi-sexual limits that. Ya run off with a new buddy and even if nothing is said you can see the wheels in the back of womans mind going, "what if they're going to Broke Back Mountain and not just Rabbit Ear mountain." I'm making it sound like she doesn't trust me at all which in not in any way the case. It's just when a spouse says "I want to go off by myself" I think most are going to read trouble into that.

eh.I often tell mine Im going to go do **** with ****.She knows my friends, its never been any concern that we are gonna go buttfucking. Shes only been mad about it once and that was when she said I wanna come too!She came, she hated every minute of it, the ride there, the auto auction, bringing cars back from out of state, the motel we stayed in, the drive up and back...Now when I say we are heading over here on this date, she says have a good time. Course if I say Im going camping by the car and do some fishing...Shes packing shit for me to go, and packing her shit was well, if I am not packing many miles in to bear country, well if Im not, shes gonna be right there with me, sucking up the fresh air, and wetting a line and cooking shit on a fire or walking the dog through the mountains.She also knows that Iv been going in to the hills alone since I was a kid, sorta reaffirms my desire to keep breathing.Its a scary fucker out there alone miles form a road with large animals walking around.