OK hi, me again.As some of you may or may not know, I have been back together with my ex-girlfriend for about 4 weeks now.To fill in the story, she came to me at work after about 3 weeks of being split up, and asked for me back, and that she'd missed me too much to be apart.So we started going out again, and yes, things have been different. Only in feel though. I can now tell that she cares for me. Before I'd have to prompt her for anything, but now she'll come right out and tell me she loves me without having to say anything prior. It's what I wanted.Now she went away 2 weeks ago to see her family for a week. About halfway through she stopped talking to me with the reason that she was in a bad mood. Any time I asked why, she would become very uptight and upset. Now that she's back, she still wouldn't talk to me about it, to the point where she told me to stop talking to her altogether.At this point I thought it was over, until a few days ago she contacted me and asked what was going on, because I had, at her request, stopped talking to her...Anyhow it turns out she just needed some time to herself, but wouldn't tell me what.After asking around I have managed to scrape up some info that she has some medical problem. Thats all I know though.I asked if I could see her and she said no, because she was feeling unsociable...a bit weird I thought.So today she came and saw me at work, for no apparent reason! I asked when I could see her next, and she said she didn't know cos she was still feeling bad, and unsociable...yet she was in town with her friends...So I'm not entirely sure what to think.Why wont she see me?Why did she come to see me at work for no reason?Does this all seem normal to you?!
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A new problem...
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forget about her.. shes trouble.. was from the start. You dont deserve that
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She has no respect for you... Lose her.
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She's playing you big time and you're letting her. She only comes around when she wants to or when it's convienient for her. You're the puppet and she's pulling the strings.
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Yea man, i agree with Amanda, she is playing you man. Lose her, and if she REALLY loves you she'll come back, yet again.
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Well I've just been informed that whatever it is she has, it is possibly life-threatening So I can understand her feeling a bit "off".I would too...but it seems she's going the wrong way about it.
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and who did you hear that from?
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Her best friend. She worships the ground he walks on.
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Don't believe anything until you hear it from her.
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Well I still haven't heard from her. I texted her today once more to see if she'll see me...I don't think I'll get a reply, so that'll be that over with and i'll be single once again, this time probably forever