I met a guy online, and we started talking on AIM.We only live about 2 hours away from each other.So we were talking to each other for about a week, and he just asks me if I had a boyfriend.And I said no.And he asked if I wanted one.I had to turn him down, saying I didn't want to complicate things adding titles of girlfriend and boyfriend.Now he never talks to me, and I feel like I pester him when I IM him. He's always doing something not to talk to me.Such as the other night. He left to be 'with some girl he knew'.I know I shouldn't be jealous because I turned him down, but it was unreasonable for him to ask me to be his girlfriend.He seems like a really nice guy.But doesn't it sound like he's just in it for a hook-up??
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It does sound like he might have only been in it for a hook-up. However,it also sounds as if he's trying to make you jealous by saying he left to be with a girl he knew. It could be that he likes you, and you saying no (even though it was reasonable to decline him) hurt his feelings.
Yes... Welcome to A2A This is a really cool place and I'm glad you asked the question. I'm Sorry... I don't know him but it sound to me like he's jacking you around. It sounds like he wa slooking for a hook up or a booty call. Nonetheless,the guys sounds like a jerk! You dont start a relationship or just a friendship by playing games..Don't give him the time of day
Could it be that he simply isn't looking for another friend. He was looking for something more got shot down and is off to look other places.What is it you were looking to get out of talking with him? Not that it really matters anyway move on to find some one who's after the same things you are.
There is no punishment. There is no reward. There are only consequences.
I don't think I was looking for anything other than just someone to talk to.And when we would talk we would do the whole webcam thing. You know, just to look at each other. I would NEVER do anything inappropriate over the web for some guy. Never.(But he did have an amazing smile and I loved seeing him laugh.)And I think he buttered me up with a pick-up line.It was like, "You're like a prize fish. I don't know whether to mount you or eat you."But he did look hurt when I said no. I couldn't bear to look at him, he looked so down and hurt. It really upset him.Because I think I do care for him a bit.