I can't stop laughing here. Alright well I had this ex and we only went out for a month, then had something non-exclusive for like 6 or 7 months, but finally that ended, too, thank God.And then two years later he starts going out with this one girl. they haven't even reached the 6 month mark yet, he's only been with her for like 3 or 4 months and already, they are engaged! they moved in together at 2 months. i'm still friends with my ex's friends and continue to hang out with them and just because we're broken up i'm not gonna stop hanging out with them because they eventually became my friends, too.i often ask how is my ex doing, just out of curiosity not out of jealousy or anything.in fact, i say that's great for him...he got the tall blonde chick that he was always lookin' for. i'm not always about looks, but i definitely did not go out with him for his looks when we went out, though.but would you say that is a bit fast to be engaged just only 4 months into a relationship?my ex has a younger brother who has been with his girlfriend for about 3 or 4 years and they aren't even engaged yet.i think maybe he got her pregnant or something, otherwise, to me, no one in their right mind would ask someone to marry them only 4 months into the relationship.
Is this a little fast or what?
It seems to me like you're a little jealous to make a post about an ex :P
it's a bit fast, but everyone's different I guess.
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i'm not really jealous though. my ex is rather unattractive and has a dull personality. after looking back on our relationship i wish i never went out with him in the first place. i went out with him at the time just to have a boyfriend and that was a big mistake that i'm never going to make ever again.i like one of his friends not to spite him but because i like his friend for his personality.
Who cares? I mean, he's your ex so what does it matter to you or to anyone what he does?
No offense but I get a bit of a snooty attitude from your post.
But yes, I can agree it's fast but oh well. To each of his own.
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I'm gonna second people's thoughts here, but reword them slightly.Your post has a very defensive tone to it. I could imagine your voice reading it out sounding quite sarcastic even. Originally Posted By: aquariusI can't stop laughing here.i often ask how is my ex doing, just out of curiosity not out of jealousy or anything.no one in their right mind would ask someone to marry them only 4 months into the relationship. Are you actually laughing? Really?Why did you feel the need to tell us that it wasn't jealousy. To me that sounds like someone saying "Oh no! The vase is broken. IT WASNT ME!"Now some might argue that I am also being defensive as I asked my fiancée to marry me after only a few months...but we are living together and we are very much in love. I wouldn't change a thing.Why have you taken such offence to this guy getting engaged? Why did you even feel it necessary to make a fairly long post about it. Did you just want people to reply with "omg he's stupid it's never gonna work?"I'm not being mean - I'm just trying to say I think you need to think about how this situation makes you feel. It might help you come to terms with it.