When having sex and when masturbating?I've always come way too early even when masturbating. It's definitely not psychological. I also tried those "great" techniques like start & stop but it's useless. The urge to come simply builds up way too fast and I can't hold it back. I can hold the piss back for a long time so it's also no weak PC muscle.I much more think it's low serotonine cause I also have depression.I really wonder how they can keep humping like crazy for 20 minutes in a row in the videos. I'd already come after 20 seconds if I humped like that. But what's also weird is that I don't lose my erection. I could easily keep on fapping but it's no longer fun after coming. A few times I tried fapping 2 times in a row and it's really hard work.How is it for the normal guys? When you fap or have sex then how does it work? Do you have the urge to come right away but you can suppress it like you can suppress pissing when you hold it back OR do you not get the urge right away and instead the urge comes later and once you get it you also cannot hold it back even if you wanted to?
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How quickly do you come?
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I generally go for an hour or so. Honestly, that's not bragging, because sometimes it becomes frustrating when i can't just cum and get it over with.
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You mean you can go for an hour for the first time or for an hour after cuming and then you need 1 hour to cum again?If you can go for 1 hour for the first time then how does it feel? Can you describe it? Do you basically feel nothing and you have to keep humping like a madman to finally cum? I guess this would also suck somehow. That would be basically me after cuming once cause when I go on after that then I feel exactly like this. I feel nothing and have to wank like crazy for at least 20 minutes in order to cum again.
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Originally Posted By: unsupervised
I generally go for an hour or so. Honestly, that's not bragging, because sometimes it becomes frustrating when i can't just cum and get it over with.
Originally Posted By: Seinfeld
GEORGE: All I know is I've been going to doctors all my life. What has it gotten me? I'm thirty-three years old. I haven't outgrown the problems of puberty, I'm already facing the problems of old age. I completely skipped healthy adulthood.
I went from having orgasms immediately to taking forever. You could do your taxes in the time it takes me to have an orgasm.
I've never had a normal, medium orgasm.
JERRY: (Jokingly making fun of George) I've never had a really good pickle.
If only that wasn't so true....
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When it comes to masturbation I can regulate how quickly or slowly I cum, but when it comes to sex I literally last for hours. Like Mr U said I am not bragging, I personally hate it. I find it to be a huge draw back because 98% of the time I end up having to get myself off instead of my partner getting me off.I'd rather be like my BF, he doesn't last a long time but he stays hard and can get off 2 or 3 times before he's finally finished.
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Usually only a few minutes when masturbating. I guess I'm still quite hormonal and easily aroused.
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Actually when you think about it is seems more logical that you come quicker when you're fapping because you can fap much faster than you fuck, right? How many faps can you get within a minute when you move your hand really fast? I'd say at least 100 or even more but you can never fuck that fast. Then why do people come faster when they fuck? This is really paradoxical. Maybe the women have something to do with it. Maybe it's simply all their fault?
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I'd say at least 100 or even more but you can never fuck that fast
Wanna make a wager on that?? lol
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Then why do people come faster when they fuck?
Because when you have sex its a totally different sensation. The sensation for a lot of people is very "over welming" and cause them to get off faster. Also sometimes it's just the act itself really turns the person on, which will also make a person orgasm faster.
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True. The real thing feels different than a hand, that's pretty logical. Basically fapping can't even be compared to normal sex because when you fap you have no gliding and just move the skin back and forth.
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This has been a problem for me recently. During intercourse I can take ~40mins or more. My girlfriend is always plenty satisfied, but she gets sore down there if I take so long. I don't want to hurt her, but she wants me to finish (as do I).Any advice?
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If you haven't already you can always cut back on the masturbation. This helps me a little. Otherwise the only other thing I can suggest is if you are experience a time when you are taking longer than desired,after you are done satisifying your girlfriend, you can finish yourself off. Find something that turns you both on whether it be your getting off on her breasts or just you laying down and your girlfriend stimulating you as you get yourself off. What ever works for you two as a couple :smile:
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Thanks for the advice, NtroducingMyself. Great signature by the way..
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masturbating takes me like 15-30 minutes, sometimes longer if I try and space it out.
sex can take like an hour or so, it's really frustrating and I've had gives tell me to stop because they were sore long before i got to bust
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How do you guys last so freaking long in the sack? yeah I'm new to sex, but I've been jerking it for as long as I can remember. I'm pretty sensitive so even putting the condom on can feel incredibly good.