I don't know if anyone else has gone through something like this but its eatin me up inside... I had been seeing this girl for about a month but only "gf bf" for a bout a week... This New Years everything was going fine and I just told her on the walk to a new party that i really liked spending time with her and being with her and shit... then we get to the party i go take a piss i come out and talking to my buddies this chicks like your gf was kissing another guy! So i talk to my gf says its nothing big there just friends so i was like aight thats cool... But when i got home my friends made it sound totally different like she was all over him... I ended up breaking up with her and now i can't stop thinking of her and the decision i made... Sorry if that was long... Any advice?
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Can i get some opinions
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you shouldnt have broken up with her, think about the kind of friends who told you this, could they overexaggerate? you never know, talk to more people.
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i have been dupmed once before for this sorta thing and from the dumpies point of view its not nice you should ask her about it and then if your not satified as the guy who she was all over about it??? i would get them BOTH together and ask um what went on cause then you shoud get the truth out ...i know they are like meant to be your friends but friends do get very jelouse and can make a lot outta nothing
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Well your biggest mistake here was having ur friends influence your thoughts of this "kiss" obviously it bothered you and you did the right thing to talk to her about it. Since this is the first time she did something like this and she said it was just being friendly then fine. You should have told her how it made you feel and tried to forget about it although its still going to hurt you. Once something like this happened again thats when you should have debated dumbing her. Since you liked her alot of course you are going to still be thinking about her. Why don't you give her a call and explain how you feel. Maybe you two can get back together or at least get back on that path. If you stay broken up you will eventually get over her, but remember if its meant to be you will be together if not you won't.
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Yeah i called her up and were going out tomorrow.. thanks for the advice
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Glad it worked out for ya!