Ok this has happened with the past to girls ive been with...I can get it up up untill i go to accually have sex and it'll drop and wont come back up...Now one of the girls gave me head and it stayed up then but its the whole point of it not coming up...i dont know what the hell to do...what would cause it to just go down??? And what can i do to keep it up???..:LATER:..
Problem gettin it up
Uhm, ive never experienced this before, but its probably your nerves, are you relaxed or are you all hyper like Oh im gunna get summ...oh shit..stay up! damn you penis! lol.. Im not really sure..
It sounds like performance anxiety, which is a common problem, made worse by being repeated with different girls. one way to treat it is not to expect to have full sex for some time. You and your girlfriend can do other things. Get comfortable with that, and then when you do go further it's likely to be fine.
Yeh, I think --CalibeR-- is right. It's probably just nerves because I remebr the first time I got a hand-jod(16 yrs) and it took me a while to get it up and I couldnt reach orgasm becaseu iwas so nervous. But my current girlfriend and I (who I am very comfortable with) have oral sex wihout any problem of not getting it up or reaching orgasm - Just nerves, dont worry bout it!