My ex and I have known each other for about a year now. I've recently found out he was really attracted to me when we first met, and I asked him out last December. Well... I broke up with him in February, and we went for two whole weeks without talking.So then a friend's birthday party comes around, we gradually start talking and hanging out again from there, and he asks me out about a month later, mid March. Well this time I fell really hard for him... So much so that I'm sure I smothered him- I constantly called when he didn't, or visited without announcing it. The first month was bliss, the last two not so much, as he avoided me and acted like a jerk sometimes. It didn't help that I didn't see him as much, I went to night school and worked on a different schedule than we did before.He broke up with me on May 30th and we haven't talked since...UNTIL!Three days ago!School started up again, I went back to high school and saw him the very first day!He got in front of me but didn't see me around the corner, so I poked him and asked how he'd been. It was a short, awkward conversation after which he left without saying goodbye.Yesterday after school, I ran up and tickled him as he was headed to his car, he slowed down and we walked together, but he got in his car without saying goodbye again. I figured no biggie, at least it was something.So then today I saw him in the office when I came in late, I walked up to the counter, ignored him, but he said, 'hi' and 'bye' to me this time! Then he left and I ran out and hugged him from behind, we both laughed n_nSo LATER as I was driving home my car overheated, leaving me on the side of the road. He stopped and asked what happened, pulled over and got out to keep me company for a minute or two; As he was leaving I asked if he would hug me and he did! But anywho, he asked if I would be alright, I said yes, and he left, this time saying goodbye as well... :3I don't want to make the same mistake twice, I'm still very in love with him, but I don't want to push him away again. What should I do? Just play cool and not even ask if he wants to be friends again? Should I keep initiating contact as we leave school or...?And here's the big question... Do you guys think that I still have a chance to get back with him, from the way he's acting after two months of non-communication?
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I can please has a halp? :3
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I'll only say that usually by this many strikes, the guys I know (they're all college aged) would only be getting back together for the possibility of some sex during a dry spell. Men have very sensitive egos and aren't going to keep doing the equivalent of running into a wall head first over and over again.You probably don't have much of a chance at a relationship at this point (doesn't sound like there was ever much of one IMO). Still, if you're interested in just being f*** buddies, that might be what he's after as well.
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Yeah only we never had sex... >.>
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Well he could be pondering on what he didn't get.I could be completely off base. I'm only one male's opinion. I'm only saying that with the exception of sex most men that I know move on after ending a relationship twice. The energy put into it doesn't equal the rewards coming from it.