My boyfriend and I talked the other day around his house about what seemed to be bugging us in our relationship, and he said he had to tell me that he felt like he always had to watch what he said otherwise i'd be easily offended, i tried to reassure him that i wasn't so sensitive anymore, and i know i'm not anymore- i hung around with my friends for a few days and although i really missed him, i felt like my old self (who didn't really care what others said to her).So yesterday i felt pretty confident actually, not like, up my own arse lmao but content, i didn't need any reassurance (which to be fair is rare for me) We were texting throughout the day and he seemed pretty cold, but i didn't want to pry, but i wanted to make sure he wasn't upset,so i asked him.Then... he text me that he was still really down about what we spoke about and he's going to sleep, i tried to get in touch with him because i'm really worried :S, but i still haven't had anything back from him- i stayed up all night just in case he wanted to talk and i'm just getting the sinking feeling in my stomach that he wants to break up and it's really making me feel sicky.I really want to talk to him but should i let him come to me first so i don't seem clingy or that i want to pry, or should i go to him again to show him that i care? Thanks
Going through a rocky patch
Every relationship has rough patches.. and if you can get through them it shows you how strong your relationship really is. Just give him his space and let him come around. Tell him you just want him to be honest with you so you can get through it together.If he is still being distant once youve given him space you should just ask him whats going on and straight out "Do you still want to be with me??"
Happiness is an attitude. We either make ourselves miserable, or happy and strong. The amount of work is the same.
Thanks :), you're right i should just leave him to it