What do I need to do?

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So about a week ago, a friend and I went to a party. It was at night and he decided to drive; so on the way there I was really horny and I wanted to jack off. But I really wanted to jack off with him, so while I sat in the passenger seat I cupped my junk and massaged my cock through my jeans assuming he would notice. At one point I saw him glance and then I swear he started massaging his cock; I got way hornier. But then he stopped and carried on with whatever we were talking about. I wanted him to pull it out so bad, but it never happened; I pleasured myself alone there and back just waiting for him to whip it out so we could both jack off.

Being a straight guy, how can I get another straight friend to jack off with me? Or even jack each other off, or maybe even blow each other?

Welcome to A2A, 6.5!

He may simply not want to do it, or not while he is driving; or it may have been nerves; or he may not have been sure that he was supposed to notice. But you have to keep the first possibility in mind.

From what other people have said before, this sort of thing is most likely to happen if you are both watching porn together.

Damn, we haven't watched porn together in a while... I'll have to figure out a way to have us both watching porn together.

*Crossing Fingers*

I would suggest that you start by kissing him because you are clearly gay.

Thanks for understanding, Rad.No, I am not gay in any way; I am also not Bi-sexual. I am a little curious though, but the thought of kissing a guy or having anal sex kinda weirds me out. Not that those things are wrong, but they're just not me.Odd how I'm grossed out by the thought of kissing a guy, yet turned on by the thought of blowin one. Kissing seems intimate and emotional, and I don't want that from a guy ever.I'm straight, and thats how ill always be.

I'm 23

Isn't 23 a little too old for these masturbation fantasies? Seems to be a little more than simple curiosity.

Maybe I am out of the age I should be to do that. But I never got the chance to do this as a teenager. I also think age is pointless; people are people.

I am very secure in myself and my sexuality, and I will stay safe and sane. Thank you for all of your advice and understanding.

LOL!! you should go for it; you never know until you try, or until you get punched in the face.

So if I could blow him... hmm... I would have to make sure that my girlfriend was perfectly fine with it; knowing her, she would want to watch. And if all of that was fine and good, I'd go for it.

But that would make for an awkward moment; "Hold that thought, I gotta call my girlfriend real quick."

You say "I am also not Bi-sexual. "If you want to suck a guys dick... then I have to say that the above statement is false.

well, I think a bi-sexual is someone who can have an emotional relationship with either sex, I cannot. But if I could get sexual pleasure from a friend whenever I wanted, or return the favor, then great!

This post may be a bit late, but I know exactly what you mean. I was talking with my girlfriend about our both having thoughts about being bi, and about the differences in girls and guys. She says (and I agree) that guys are more physical in their emotions for the same sex, while girls are generally emotionally linked to the same sex.Like you, I think it would be amazing to j/o (with, or actually doing it to) a guy, or give him a b/j, or receive, or possibly even kiss, but I could never see actually being in a "relationship" or having EMOTIONAL feelings for a guy... or even being "monogamous" in a same-sex "relationship" or "hook-up." It would just be a one-time or maybe multiple-times things, but not a "relationship."

WOW! I figured somebody had the same thoughts as I do, I agree with you completely. Why can't we be best friends, I wouldn't have this friggan problem. I would leave the kissing out though, no offense.