For my situation, i will be changing the names of the girls in this story and will try to keep it as brief as possible.Allison- This is the girl I first fell in love with. We dated for 3 years. She is bi, but this never was a problem. We broke up over a year ago but still stay in touch. We hang out randomly sometimes we even have sex now and again. We end up dating other people but always come back to each other not dating or anything such as that just hanging out. Since we have broken up she has dated a few girls. I asked her why? She said I was the only guy for her... She even told me rescently that she wanted to be with me but not right now..I actually feel the same way..were both wanting to be together one day, but not at the moment. Were both to wilde kinda..have to much to do if that makes sense.Then there is rebeccaMe and rebecca have been friends for a long time. We have dated a few times but nothing serious...she is also bi(go figure). Just rescently we got back together like last week for the 4th time. We were just talking one day and mentioned how she hated her roomates. I jokingly said maybe one day you can move in with me. She took it seriously...she randomly texted me telling me she cant wait to move in this weekend. We were even having dinner the other night and she talked about how her grandmother wanted to give us stuff and her family adors me and wishes us the best..This would be great..if not for allison.If you put allison and rebeca right beside each other i would choose allison. I love her...I cant help it..but im still not ready for me and her to be together. I guess you could say Im just dating till that day if it ever comes. (sorry if that makes me sound like as*hole). I really like rebecca i do, but I dont think i see a future for us together. Everytime we get together she moves way to quick.What should I do...How can i let rebecca down easily. I hate hurting her feelings and thinks she may go deeply depressed....she honestly loves me with all her heart and I cant return it and I feel like shit for it.