I am new here, but here's my problem (I think...)
I am 18 years old, I am reasonably healthy and whatnot. I have never had sex with a woman.
I have tried to have sex twice - both times failed due to myself not being able to get a hard enough errection. Once about a month ago, once since months ago. Both times I have been slightly drunk so it is hard to say if this is the problem?
I never thought I had a problem.. when masturbating I can usually get an errection and cum fine - but recently due to the cercumstances I have been wondering wether it is a full erection as I can't seem to get hard enough to have sex. In saying that once again I had been drinking a reasonable amount on both occasions.. wether or not this makes a difference I guess it is hard to tell.
Any help would be greatly appreciated!!
Can't get full erection.
**once six months ago
Welcome to A2A, Ignition. If everything works when you are masturbating, then you should be fine. That would indicate that there are not physical problems which would inhibit you from obtaining an erection.
I would rather point to the alcohol and/or "first time" jitters. Relax, stay away from the alcohol, and things will most likely work better next time.
Yes, and I'd add that it's helpful not to have expectations of sex - make it just a session with a lot of stroking and licking and see what happens.
I would also add that mornings are often much better for sex than evenings.
It definitely seems to only be a case of performance anxiety. Lay low on the alcohol and spend a little more time preparing for the occassion. Enjoy plenty of foreplay first and you will relax and get right into it without a problem.
Rev Up your Libido.
I'd recommend lots of foreplay, it really gets you hot, second is maybe you're the type of guy who needs to find a girl you really really really like. watch Adventureland, he never speaks of his sexual problems but the main character is very similar. he is looking for the right girl. when he finds her he is no longer reall afraid of the term sex
Thanks for that everyone, will see what happens I guess.. and try to stay away from the drinking xD