I met the nicest guy in the world and we've been hanging out so much dude like... he's a total dork just like me. We like Lord of the Rings and Transformers and Spiderman and Harry Potter and video games and the Middle Ages and Classics and New Zealand and the Renaissance and Europe and all that good stuff! Dude, we even QUOTE Gandalf lines! Like... we both know the Gollum speech from the Twin Towers! And he was so sweet and funny and then we went out to have lunch and talk about the showing of Transformers at our school and then like... after 2 hrs of talking he just blurts out "you're really hott" and I'm just like... aww ok thanks. And then as we're talking he starts staring me down (and when I say me I mean my body) and then he starts rubbing my leg (during my sympathy moments) and all that weirdness. And trying to find my "tickle spots" when he asked if I was ticklish (which to my misfortune I am) and all this time I'm completely oblivious.
Then we went out on the Jewish veranda to look at the castle that we both said reminded us of Hogwarts and then he like... grabbed my ass, man! Like it was a friggin stress ball! And I'm like what the hell (but in reality I said... woah what are you doing). And then he just came all up behind me and fondling me like I was a friggin piece of meat. And he was like oh I'm really attracted to you and I think we should take this a bit further (dude! we've been in school for like... A MONTH! we just met!) and then I was like, ummm i dont know about that because I'm really not into messing around and whatever so he was like ok cool and backed off.
Then we went to the lounge to go check out a 3D animation video for class and we were sitting on the couch and he was showing me the video and then this bumbachok starts rubbing my back and playing with my hair and I'm just like... "ah that tickles, stop hehehahahoho" trying not to be mean. And then he was like oh i can't help but touch you, I really wish I could f*ck you right now. I told him sorry I don't plan on having sex anytime soon. So what was once a discussion about our 3D animation class turned into him trying to get me to have sex with him. I'm like "dude, i really just wanna be friends, I'd rather get to know you better" yadayada and he's like can we please just do something and this that and the other. And I said I'm sorry I really just want to be friends. And THEN he says "fine!" and moves away from me. I'm like... what the hell? And he's all like "i guess i was just barking up the wrong tree, i'd rather not talk right now"
WTF?? You don't want to talk to me anymore because I said I didn't want to have sex??? Like, was he just pretending the whole time. (I take my LOTR obsession so seriously!) That's so messed up, dude, like what the frig??
I feel like I was played, man. Like... go take a friggin cold shower or find a hooker if you want sex so badly. UGH!!!!
And... i'm sorry I sound so childish but... i'm just so miffed cause I really thought he was sweet and like me. But like.. who doesn't want to be my friend?? I'm so nice and sweet and nerdy and "one of the guys" like... how? And then later on today he blew his lid when I told him I don't want to practice premarital sex. Like, dude I'm so sorry that I'm sticking to what I believe!
and I just... ughhhhhhhhhhh like... I didn't even lead him on man. I was totally unattractive with my baggy sweats my jacked up nerdy Iron Man t-shirt and my bandanna! what guy wants that? whyyyyy are people so shallow and nasty! I'm more than that right?
sorry I'm done... I need to go to bed. I feel so miserable right now. I feel like I just got slapped in the face. I'm nice, man... I like... give people chocolate and free gum.... rude people don't give away their gum! I gave him my kit kat during the lecture! And I don't share kit kats man it's like my opium! I want my kit kat back that friggin perv of a liar! ugh!
ok i'm officially done.
Why!? *warning: rant*
"Isso é como nós latinas/meninas pretas fazemos. Vá ou flua.. ya digg?"
He's the one who should be slapped in the face!
OK, if you can tell us everything you know about him, we can have him castrated by morning.
The guy is a little prick, probably just had his first college sex quite recently and is on some sort of "I can fuck anyone here!" buzz. You do not come off negatively in this story one little bit. You did nothing to lead him on, I'd say the only problem was that you weren't stern enough after his initial advances, which is understandable as you didn't want to be mean. But with some guys, you kinda have to drill it into their skulls.
I hope you're having a very nice sleep right now, little Abi.
<b>The Word of God - <i>Surprisingly indistinguishable from one's own personal opinion.</i></b>
I'd pretty much only copy what Ineligible and Bob had to say. They guy was a jerk! Just be thankful he showed his true colors quickly so you can throw him to the curb quickly.
<span style="color: green">"Don't be a Dork! Wrap your Pork!" </span><br /><br />
this is why i pride myself in being UNLIKE that. that guy was a DICK and bob and Ntroducingmyself are right. Theres always another! plenty of guys love all the same things as that. and 99.9% of guys love LOTR. my friend can recite kind theodins speech, in its entirety, from return of the king.
This jokester thats plagin your minds just got to get over his collegant obsession with vaginas. Itl pass and nice men in armani suits will take you out to fancy resturants and recite shakespearean love sonnets underneath you windowsill.
hope your doing better
"Even castles made of sand, fall into the sea, eventually." Jimi Hendrix
Some guys like the sweats, I guess.
Basically he was a jerk.
You don't need him, you deserve better.
You shouldn't be judges by your sexuality but by your personality
i know some guys pulls that on girls.. and i hear the laughing and bragging that they do wehn she;s not around. My brother likes to play those games, he pets on women and tells them what they want to hear. Yes, they do usually end up fucking. one time he told me somthing when i brought up why he does the wahtever he does.. the games.. he told me that some girls are after the same thing... and others aren’t. The ones that arnt are the type he would seddle down wiht and marry but till then he's going to play. (those arnt his words it was a long talk but it's his point.) still its just.... i get sex with no emotion and i get the screwign around with willign girls but not tricking them into it. not.. making them thingk there is more when he knows after he;d done he'll doump them and move on to the next. Sadly i knwo who the good fuckers are cus he keeps them around longer. sad i know... i can;t believe i used to ;look up to my brother wtf was i thinking!>>>!???
anyway- i respect girls that know how to put down their foot and say no. Good Job Abi! high 5
“was he just pretending the whole time.”
I’m sorry but yes he was. He wanted in your pants that all.
. I was totally unattractive with my baggy sweats my jacked up nerdy Iron Man t-shirt and my bandanna!
I’ve tried the hiding but it don’t work. And I don’t really understand why it don’t.
I feel so miserable right now.
I actually understand how you feel. I’ll tell what has been told to me. it dont have much effect on me but mabe it will for you. It’s not your fault. Some people are just after sex and they go for it…… (my brother is like that and I can’t stand it.)
I’ve been hit on, felt up, fondled, rubbed up on, store stalked, used as a lour… I don’t know how to stop them and I don’t know what to tell you to do. I wish I did.
I can’t offer any help but I can offer understanding. At least for me knowing some one understands my fear, frustration, hurt, rage, extra… helps.