I don't know what to do?

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This girl keeps asking me out, but it's in a threating way. I don't wan to go out with her, because (1) I'm gay and (2) she is a slut. My parents know about the girl and my mom asked me why I won't go out with I said because she's a slut, but my dad on the other hand think I should still go out with he. So today I was in th parking lot at IGA with my mom waiting for my dad to come out. And me and my mom got in to it about my dad. And the argument went on and on. Then she said "well you are just freaking your dad out and making him wonder if you aren't a heterosexual male." about then I was like well let him beleive what ever he wants. HE JUST THINKS THAT BeECAUSE I WONT GO OUT WITH A SLUT! My mom said yes and because you were pink alot. (my three favorite shirts are pink [two volley for the cure shirt and an I LOVE JESUS SHIRT]). So I said well good, because one of my freinds I making me a pink goodie that says just because I wear pink doesn't make me gay!!God some times I just wan to look at my parents and scream "I'm a fucking flaming fagot, you little bigots gave birth to a queer!" but I won't!And if you say well you are just gay, because you want to rebel against your parents. I will smack you down, becaus I'm gay because I like dick, I want to be fucked by dick, I want to suck dick, I like sucking dick, and I'm goo at it to!!

I'm sorry, boo.No offense, your parents sound like hypocrites. Especially if they claim to be "Christian". It hurts hearing how you have to keep something that's so much a part of you hidden from those that you love and care about for fear of being shunned. Sometimes, I wonder what my own family would do if I were a lesbian and I told them this. Somehow, the only person that I think would be okay with this is my sister and she's Christian too but she's open-minded.I wish I could help you out, I really do. But I'm just now beginning to learn about the prejudice that homosexuals, bisexuals, and transexuals face on a day to day basis. The whole pink clothing thing is really stupid though... I mean really.I don't know, boo, I'm sorry. I wish you could meet my friends Mark and Kevin. They're probably the nicest people you could ever meet and really cute wink wink lol. They pretty much helped me to broaden my horizon when it came to homosexuality and helped me understand a bit better. But they know all about what you have to deal with and especially Kevin who before college was basically in the same situation you're in. He pretty much saw college as a freedom for all of that. Just hang in there okay? And if you ever need to talk at all or let out some anger or rant or anything just lemme know.

that sucks balls.1. pink is a fashionable colour!! ugh tell your parents that!! Your parents sound lame but theyre just being parents. dont date a girl just to please them!! They will be very angry at first when they find out youre gay but... they should accept you. Its not fair the way parents (at least for people our age) see homosexuals. Theyre the same as everyone else!! Who you love is none of their business. We dont question straight people what goes on in their bedroom so why should it matter for gays.Im sorry you're having such a hard time.

Awe thanks you guys!! : - )1. pink is a fashionable colour!! ugh tell your parents that!! I love that, but I think that it might cause more problems lol. Pink is my favorite color!!I've been on the YouthGuard website and mailing list. I never got anything. Also Abe I gotta find out what classes you are taking. They sound like class that I would want to take!!

Ok I will

It helps going to a liberal school, they're more open and accepting of diversity, especially in regards to sexuality.The classes I'm taking that you would probably be interested in is Introduction to the Comparative Studies of Human Societies (or Anthropology) and Women and Gender in Culture in Society. Any gender class actually you would like. Those classes you would enjoy.

Yea I think I would.

Hey deek, I just go this email from one of my WMGS professors. I think I might also take this class for the spring semester.

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To: Students in Women's and Gender Studies

From: Profs. Aliyyah Abdur-Rahman and Tom King, Department of English

We are delighted to be co-teaching ENG 151a, Queer Studies, during the spring semester -- a rare opportunity funded by WGS. We know that you are thinking now about your spring courses and getting ready to pre-register. We'd like to share our thoughts about ENG 151a, Queer Studies.

ENG 151a, Queer Studies explores the construction, embodiment, and negotiation of sexuality and sexual identities. For us, the term "sexuality" resonates as a constitutive element of identity, a source of pleasure, an organizing principle in the allocation of power, a disciplinary practice or methodology, and a liberatory political enterprise. We ask: How does sexuality provide a lens and vocabulary for exploring modes of embodiment and the body's relation to the world?

In spring 2009, we will pay particular attention to sexualities and race in the U.S., from the nineteenth century to the present. We would like to bring critical race theory into active conversation with queer theory, thinking in depth about the racialization of sexuality and, conversely, the eroticization of race in the U.S.

Rapidly developing within and across disciplines, Sexuality Studies provides language for theorizing embodiment and relations of pleasure, desire, anxiety, and disavowal as these shape discourses of citizenship in the U.S., including the racialized discourses with which we will be especially concerned.

Students in ENG 151a, Queer Studies will think historically and critically about literary and other written discourses, visual representations, and other material artifacts.

As an upper-level course primarily in theory and criticism, ENG 151a includes some complex, but fascinating, reading in queer theory. An introductory course in gender/sexuality or critical theory is recommended preparation for ENG 151a but not a formal prerequisite.

Warm regards,
T. King

Originally Posted By: JapanFan14Hey deek, I just go this email from one of my WMGS professors. I think I might also take this class for the spring semester.To what end? I can see where somebody your age might be curious, but hey...you've got a goal to keep in mind, don't you?BTW, I hope to God my tax-dollars aren't funding this kind of crap. I can't believe they call it "education"...probably more like "indoctrination". Some folks certainly have a twisted view of what they consider to be most important to put into the future minds of this country.

I agree with that.I have a good friend who is Muslim. His wife is pregnat with the first child.He and his mother were talking to my mom and through some odd conversations said that if the child is a boy, and it turns out to be gay that he has to kill it. My mom was shocked and launched in to a argument, he told her it is the right thing to do, ask chance he would agree with me.This disturbed me. The fact he felt so strong that I would agree with killing my own son because he was gay, what the fuck have I said or did that would make anyone think I would agree with that?I do not. I do want my sons to be straight. Why would I not? There is all the advantages handed to you for being straight, life deals pain in great amounts, why add to that by being gay?I would never wish a gay child on anyone.WIth that being said, even if my son was gay (I think its easier for parents if its a daughter thats gay)he is still my son. Of course I would still love him! I would not be happy, but I would not think less of him, I would not hate him or stop loving him, and I certainly would never kill him over it. I would however have to brace myself to watch him endure a life of hate from others simply because he was not sexually attracted to girls, worry about him being assaulted for reasons beyond his control, and hated and treated like a second class human, fucking less than human, just because of who he loves.I think a gay child would be a great trauma for a parent. I also believe that anyone who is a real parent, would never turn their back on their child, no matter what they did, and especially because they were gay.

Quote:To what end? I can see where somebody your age might be curious, but hey...you've got a goal to keep in mind, don't you?Isn't the whole point of college to be educated on what you don't know and prepare you for whatever career path you want to follow? Thor, please don't judge me in such a negative way just because I have a keen desire to learn more about non-heterosexuality. The homophobia and hostility towards homosexuality runs deep in my family and I honestly don't think it's going to harm me if I learn more about it. I still stand firm in my beliefs, so why is this wrong? Quote:BTW, I hope to God my tax-dollars aren't funding this kind of crap. I can't believe they call it "education"...probably more like "indoctrination". Some folks certainly have a twisted view of what they consider to be most important to put into the future minds of this country.Voce e serio? como rude! No thor, your tax-dollars aren't funding "this kind of crap". Actually MY MONEY that I saved up during all those years of working before and after school to afford a college education is funding it so that my mother doesn't have to work herself to death. Can you chill with your critical remarks and try not being so egotistical?

You are exactly the type of piece of shit that makes life so miserable for so many gay kids, you are the people I try to keep my children away from, I will take a gay teacher in his school over your irrational, bullshit, bible thumping hate any day. You are the reason I would fear my child being gay.The worst part is I am willing to bet that makes you proud and feel righteous. That alone should clue people in to just how fucking sick you people are.

Originally Posted By: JapanFan14Can you chill with your critical remarks and try not being so egotistical? I've got a right to be concerned where my tax dollars go.Beyond that, having been on this earth more than twice as long as you, I've got a bit better idea as to what things are important and what things are not. You'd be the one being egotistical to think otherwise. Granted, your particular choice of vocation may avail good reasons for taking a course like that...but I'm quite certain it is as much about indoctrinating you into a way of thinking as it is informative. Again...more of the "what to think" instead of "how to think for yourself".

Originally Posted By: GrvtykllrYou are exactly the type of piece of shit that makes life so miserable for so many gay kids, you are the people I try to keep my children away from, I will take a gay teacher in his school over your irrational, bullshit, bible thumping hate any day. You are the reason I would fear my child being gay.The worst part is I am willing to bet that makes you proud and feel righteous. That alone should clue people in to just how fucking sick you people are. More of the same tripe as in the other thread. You just don't know what you're talking about...but enjoy the process of talking too much to stop. Oh well.

What you know is whats important to you, not whats important.
Your inability to see the difference is one of your many faults.
As is your rational that says just because someone is younger than you, their opinion means less.
As to talking, I think you talk so much just to hear your own voice.

and if my tax dollars buy one, single bible, I'm heading to parliament hill with a lynch squad

Um Thor I asked a question about somthing. I got I answered in th same thread I asked another question, that got answered. And then Abi wrote somthing helpful about a COLLEGE course that sounds like somthing I might take. And beings it wa a college course I'm betting your tax dollars didn't pay for it! Just like in any college, even public colleges get most of their money from students! You telling people that they talk too much, is like the pot calling the kettle black. I am so GOD DAMN tired of you Thor. I Dom want your advice and I suggest that you stay out of my threads, when they are about my homosexuality. I have enough trouble with out a know it all, homophobic, closet case chirping in on everything!!So go Fuck yourself Thor!!!!

Quote:having been on this earth more than twice as long as you, I've got a bit better idea as to what things are important and what things are not.LOL! Well, thor, I have been on this earth rather longer than you, and I have the idea that given a choice between your judgement and anyone else's here of any age, I would go for the anyone else. You remind me a bit of those people who look down with contempt on anyone younger than themselves. As they get older, the percentage of the world that they look down on gets larger and larger until they hold practically everyone in contempt. Their eventual passing is considered by their family as not before time.

Oh you old codger, go complain because the TV's too loud.I second what everyone else has said. (Psst, Pete. High five!)  Quote:I've got a bit better idea as to what things are important [to me] and what things are not [to me]. Thought that needed adding. Other than being upset at where some of your taxes go, I think this is pretty sad, that this is the best that you have to complain about, on the internet no less.Though I'm happy you recognize Abi's achievements in her choosing her vocation, and not criticizing her for that, at least.  Quote:You'd be the one to be egotistical to think otherwise (than the great and powerful thor). You make me laugh. You're a gay old man aren't you?And it's funny, your theory of being taught "what to think". You pick your classes in college, so your picking what your taught "what to think", right? Same old song and dance. Come up with something new.

Quote:I've got a right to be concerned where my tax dollars go. Yeah you can be concerned about where your tax dollars go.. but you have no choice to where it goes. Guess what!! Your tax dollars are helping gays and god-haters!! How does that make you feel?  Quote:Beyond that, having been on this earth more than twice as long as you, That may be so.. but Abi has A LOT more sense than you and is alot more considerate of others than you are. Age doesnt matter anymore old man... Knowledge and personality is what gets you far.