I meant to post Sunday night, but I wanted to let you all know that I told my parents that I'm bisexual. They asked questions and were completely the opposite of what I thought was going to happen. I've never been so happy. However, they have been acting a bit strange the last few days. It's so not easy telling your parents that you like girls just as much, if not more than guys. They said they'll support me, and we'll tell people when I'm ready to. Thx for the advice, it helped me sort things out.
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I can't believe it......
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That's very good news! I imagine it will take them some time to fully digest the information.
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That's great to here!Things may be a little awkward for awhile while they digest the information but they're going to be there for you and support you. You couldn't ask for more. I'm so glad things worked out for you.
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That's awesome I am very happy for you :smile:
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I too like girls more than guys, wow we have like so much in common roflmao
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Great job!!! Big step!
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Thanks guys. I do owe most of my courage to my best friend "Charlie". But I also owe a lot of it to you guys and the advice you gave me. I feel so much more confident and in control of my life. Things couldn't be any better right now. Except my 13 year old brother doesn't know yet and I don't know how to tell him..
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I am going to wait before I decide to date a girl, because high school has a field day with fresh out-of-the-closet bisexual girls. I'm not gonna tell my brother he can just find out on his own, I guess, he makes fun of gays and stuff because he hears all of it at school and from our cousins.
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I wouldn't pursue a girl just because you feel like you have to. Besides, high school is filled with stupid gossip and pointless relationships. Wait until college, it's so much different, much more open. Different schools work differently, but I know my University, relationships are far less common than hook-ups. If you're just looking to experiment at first, why date someone when you can fool around no strings attached?
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I'm not the NSA kind of person. I've always been the safe one that makes sure it's real before I do anything. I don't want a fling and I'm sick of ending up with guys that move too fast.
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What did you think was going to happen when you told your parents? Why do you care about how your brother is going to react to how you choose to live your life. Are you afraid they're going to stop loving you? The truth is people will always react and judge to there best level of awareness but it's important that your choosing your own path and it doesn't matter what people think. I think your family will just want to see you happy and if not thats their problem.