I've been single since the age of 15 and have only had sex one other time since then. I'm not bad looking, nor a loner, but for some reason NO women want me and i seem to be doomed to loneliness.I work hard, and treat women as equals but lately i have developed a burning hate for them because i see them crawling all over other guys but never even coming close to considering me, and it really is beginning to take its toll on my sanity.I dropped out so i never experienced high school, so i'm pretty much fucked when it comes to approaching my age group due to being in the working field. Being a dropout i never had time to fuck around, but even in my social group where most of the girls were total fucking sluts they dated and fucked absolutely EVERYONE but me.I'm beginning to hate being alive, and am getting sick of this desolate feeling of hopeless loneliness.
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18, single???
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Welcome to A2A, marduklodoffire.It's likely there is something wrong with the way you approach women or are perceived by them, but it's difficult to be sure what it is from what you say. Your burning hate may be more obvious than you think, or maybe you show no self-confidence and hang back too much, or maybe you try too hard and appear creepy - it could be any of these or a hundred other things. What would help is if there is a girl that you could ask what the reason is (or ask her to ask her friends). It could be something surprising, perhaps something easily changed. Perhaps they all consider you too good and out of their league!
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if it makes you feel any better even though I'm 17 not 18 It took me over a year of asking this girl before she finally went out with me =/
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I'm glad she finally did.
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if it makes you feel any better, i'm almost 19 and never had a girlfriend.
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You're so young - you've got so much time. I'm sure that doesn't sound comforting but really, it's so true. I know it's tough - been there myself. didn't even have sex until I was 18. Just happens to some of us.Do you have any girls you know as friends? Or maybe the wife of a friend that could give you some pointers? You know, someone that actually knows you and knows what you're like. She might be able to give you few tips on what you might be doing wrong.meanwhile, I just discovered the "watch this topic" link - I'll ask my wife later on and see what she thinks. She's amazing with dating advice.
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just to add to the other good advice, all I can say is relax. I was a virgin when I saw my 18th birthday and I was almost sure I would die a virgin. I later found out that there were a pile of girls in my highschool that wanted me madly but thought I was "unapproachable" because i was such a dark character in those days.Since then, well, I've had my fair share of girl friends, one nighters and a marriage. Be your self, be cool. You might get layed or you might meet the love of your life (or both). Just try not to worry
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I'm in the same boat, but I dated a girl when I was 13 and it didn't work (she has always been like a sister and the whole I'm not attracted to girls probably helped with the failer.)Also look on the bright side you have had sex before. Also there is most likely a whole group of girls out there that like you, that way. You can no there's not and bitch about it, but trust me there are. If I have to pick them off of me, and I'm not even that good looking, then there's a whole gob of girls for you. It took one girl to say that she liked for the rest to say they did, so all you need is one girl and then you'll be picking them off of you. Just watch out for stalker. : - )
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It's just like, they raise other dudes to the level of a god and treat me like complete shit, i'm sick of it.All i want to do is fucking die, rather then suffer another 40 years of this horrible god awful shit.I don't even remember having a girl like me back. and now i can't even talk to them, so it's like im basically screwed forever.
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I'm 18 and I plan on staying a virgin lol. Well... idk... some of the guys in this college are like predators. They appear all nice and sweet and then BAM! they're trying to get in your pants without even remembering your damn name.I'm beginning to think that there really aren't any "real good guys" because all the "good guys" I met turned out to be really bad guys. Sigh... it's depressing. When you realize that they're not really interested in you at all but just your body. I've met way too many guys like that on my campus and personally... I'm giving up.what's so great about sex anyway... lol
