I AM BEING MOLESTED BY HOMOSEXUALS!

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This thread is not a joke. I have a serious fucking problem, on at least several different occasions in public, presumably gay men come up to me and basically raped me in public. For example:

• One day at the supermarket some creepy old guy comes up, comments on what I had in my cart and strokes my back and goes away after I give him a dirty look. I am not one for confrontation so I just walked away and tried to forget about it.

• Recently at the bar one night I was outside holding a drink talking to friends and suddenly some random guy begins dry humping me from behind. My friend noticed this and got in the guys face, the guy then responded to my friend saying "i can hump the shit out of this kid all i want" and later on we actually followed him after the bars closed and beat his ass for this. It's not a hate crime cause it wasn't because he was gay, it's because he raped me that we beat the shit out of him so I'm not afraid of any repercussions.

• And last night at the bar I am sitting a table waiting for my friends, some guy comes over, strokes my shoulder and smiles at me, at first I thought it was someone I knew but then I realized it was a complete stranger and I shuddered and tried to brush it off again.

What the fuck is going on. I don't dress gay, I wear normal clothes and I am not making eye contact or encouraging this. I just try and mind my own fucking business and keep to myself. I have been raped 3 times by homosexuals and I am not "asking for it" like a girl in a short skirt.

This is very creepy and I want to know why the fuck anyone thinks this is acceptable behavior. I'm not going to gay establishments, these are normal straight bars. Just because someone is gay does not give them the fucking right to molest random guys. This is why hate crimes happen.

Please someone tell me why this is happening to me?

I pulled these quotes from stuff you wrote on here a while back: Quote: I don't know where to begin but I have a terrible problem. I finding all of my attractions to be towards men.  Quote: My teen years were terrible. I was socially awkward, always by myself, girls ignored me. .... I wasn't ugly but I was convinced I had something physically wrong with me. I was bullied and alienated all the time. I had extremely low self-esteem. So based on what you are now outraged about, it seems that in some way you must be unknowingly sending out some awfully strong signals that are getting picked up quite clearly by other guys' 'gaydar'.I think your answer is within, but you need to be truly open with yourself to hear it and work with it. What do your bar friends really think about what happened? Why did YOU get singled out and not them?? The gay-dar is somehow homing in on you for a reason that you need to figure out. Re-read your own quotes, above.

See I don't know. I do not look anything like a stereotypical homosexual, flashy sequins, highlights in the the hair, etc.

I was really embarrassed when my friends saw that and wondered what they would think.

In any case, isn't humping someone completely unacceptable? If I had gone far enough to report it, he would be a registered sex offender for that shit.

What fucking signals am I sending out? I wear normal blue jeans, maybe a hooded sweatshirt, and sit there drinking a beer (not some sissy cosmopolitan or something) not looking at anyone and this shit happens. I can't think of any signals, I am not even interacting with anyone there half the time.

A guy can't go up and do this shit to a girl, why does a homosexual think it's ok to do to me? I'm thinking about carrying a taser from now on since I keep getting raped. No matter what these pieces of shit are fucking deviants to think that behavior is okay. This is why I have an idea of all homosexuals being perverts and pederasts.

When you're at these places, do you keep finding yourself looking around at other guys and just kind of ignoring any girls that might be in the room?

No, I'm absolutely not ignoring girls and certainly never even looked at these creeps once in my life. I'm so disgusted by this that the next time it happens I will erupt in violence. I can't stand these guys touching me like it's okay. Why are gay men allowed to molest guys but if a straight man does this to a woman it's rape?

If they want to go around touching guys why don't they go to a fucking gay bar where that shit flies, that's what I want to know.

First off lets get one thing straight, you are not being raped.. nor would I say you are being molested. Were you perhaps put in an uncomfortable situation? Sure.Most likely the guy who "dry humped" you was probably drunk and being an obnoxious drunk at that. I have seen many times at straight bars guys goofing off and dry humping and all sorts of stupid behaviors.  Quote:In any case, isn't humping someone completely unacceptable? If I had gone far enough to report it, he would be a registered sex offender for that shit. Yes it was unacceptable, when people get drunk they often can end up doing things that are unacceptable. Also, if you would have reported it the guy would NOT have to register as a sex offender.  Quote: This is why I have an idea of all homosexuals being perverts and pederasts. And this statement shows your ignorance. I'm a homosexual and I have never molested anyone... dry humped anyone.. or walked up to a stranger and rubbed their shoulder. Homosexuals like me are the majority.I think the fact you are struggling over your own sexuality is making you ultra sensitive to situations that really aren't anything.

Quote: And this statement shows your ignorance. I'm a homosexual and I have never molested anyone... dry humped anyone.. or walked up to a stranger and rubbed their shoulder. Homosexuals like me are the majority.I'm not imagining it. In no instance would a straight guy walk up to a stranger, caress his arm and smile. Is this how homosexuals try and meet or something? These things don't happen to my friends. It's shit like this that makes me not want to go out anymore. And yes I was raped. They don't have to penetrate you to rape you. He raped my sense of well being and dignity. I certainly felt raped afterward and I might need to go to a support group for rape victims.And I'm not really "struggling," I'm able to get hard off girls and find girls hot, I know that for a fact and in my book that means I'm straight and I'll keep it at that. If anything bisexual but that's just like being half-jewish or something and choosing whether to celebrate Hanukkah or Christmas. I'm repulsed by the idea of guys together sexually and I really haven't felt any different for a while now. And fuck you for bringing it up anyways because I was finally able to put it all in the back of my head and move on.And fuck any of you if you disagree because i know better and you're all fucking pieces of shit for insisting people go into "categories" anyways.

Quote: And fuck any of you if you disagree because i know better and you're all fucking pieces of shit for insisting people go into "categories" anyways. Great way to get support by calling people pieces of shit...At any rate.. I think calling what you went through rape, is really degrading to people who have truly been raped. I am not saying you didn't feel uncomfortable or that your personal special wasn't violated in that situation, I am sure you do feel that way. But to say you were raped is extreme.  Quote: and I might need to go to a support group for rape victims.And this is what I mean by extreme. Could you imagine going to a group and putting yourself in the same category as people who were truly raped? I could not imagine that going over well with others.  Quote: In no instance would a straight guy walk up to a stranger, caress his arm and smile. Is this how homosexuals try and meet or something? Nope, most of the time if homosexuals wish to meet other homosexuals they go to gay bars. Still, I wonder if perhaps your perception of these peoples intentions is a bit skewed because of your own concerns and issues. And if their intention was to try and "pick you up" yes they were wrong. But that doesn't mean you have to be mean or threaten them.. a simple "Sorry I'm straight" is more than sufficient and gets the point across.

Quote: And this is what I mean by extreme. Could you imagine going to a group and putting yourself in the same category as people who were truly raped? I could not imagine that going over well with others.I think I went through the same feelings at least. I felt helpless and violated afterward like he had taken something from me without my permission.I don't think a support group would be that judgmental. It's not like in half baked where Dave Chappelle goes to an narcotics anonymous meeting for weed and gets heckled and Bob Saget tells him he used to suck dick for coke. Quote:Nope, most of the time if homosexuals wish to meet other homosexuals they go to gay bars. Still, I wonder if perhaps your perception of these peoples intentions is a bit skewed because of your own concerns and issues.And if their intention was to try and "pick you up" yes they were wrong. But that doesn't mean you have to be mean or threaten them.. a simple "Sorry I'm straight" is more than sufficient and gets the point across. How can it be skewed, guy comes over, touches me and gives me a perverted smile I don't think I was taking it out of context. I didn't know him and I don't think he just wanted to be friends or something. Gays should not try to pick up guys in non-gay surroundings. Also it's fucked up to just assume a guy is gay and make a move. I'm not going to get into gay bashing here, but I think a threat is necessary when they break the threshold by touching me, you do not touch me, that's fucking crossing the line. The guy who's ass we beat, well he was asking for it by basically says he could sexually assault a stranger if he wanted to. My friend actually encouraged me to help kick his ass and I went along not only because I was pissed but I had to get my dignity back after that. I had tried to hit him in the head with a bottle but luckily missed because I could have killed him, although i have good criminal attorneys in the family and would have never done a day in jail.

Originally Posted By: shawunga- Recently at the bar one night I was outside holding a drink talking to friends and suddenly some random guy begins dry humping me from behind. My friend noticed this and got in the guys face, the guy then responded to my friend saying "i can hump the shit out of this kid all i want" and later on we actually followed him after the bars closed and beat his ass for this. It's not a hate crime cause it wasn't because he was gay, it's because he raped me that we beat the shit out of him so I'm not afraid of any repercussions.Sounds like typical straight guy shit to me. I spent a lot of time in bar when I was younger and saw plenty of straight guys doing that to each other. Either way, reacting with violence is wrong and immature. Do what needs to be done to get said guy off of you whether he's gay or straight beyond that chasing someone down and beating them is uncalled for because at that point you have become the aggressor. Beside doing shit like that makes you look like a weak little pussy who can't take care of himself when necessary and has to wait till he has a pack of friends to jump somebody. Your afraid of somebody see you, as what you think of, as gay. Well then man the fuck up and learn to take care of the situation then and there... otherwise your just another pussy hoodlum that needs a hoard of friends to grow a backbone. Now you want to know why this shit is happening to you... because your so frickin' scared your gay your blowing every little thing, come-on or not, out of proportion and making it into a big deal saying something about the most pressing thing on your mind... your sexuality. Some guy makes bedroom eyes at you, walk the fuck away, he'll get the idea. Some guy rubs your shoulder, pull the fuck away and give him a, "get the fuck lost" look, problem solved. Somebody is dry humping you knock the fuck out of 'em and get 'em off you.Getting a group of friends and chasing them down, hell that's just pussy.

Three times is no coincidence. I need to know what I am doing to put out an "open invitation." Like I said, I don't wear anything extravagant, have normal hair, i am not prancing around, i don't have any piercings, and basically when i go out i probably just look depressed if anything because i'm bored and none of the girls there want anything to do with me. now i know why, they probably think i'm gay.But why is that? How can you assume a normally dressed, non-descript person sitting at a table is homosexual if they haven't even said anything?

Wasn't my idea to beat him down, my friend actually suggested it because the guy pissed him off too by first denying that he humped me, then by getting in his face really close and asserting that he had a right to hump me. It was just 2 of us beating him though, my friend got most the punches in, I stomped on him a couple times after he was down just to make sure he remembered me. So I am not a "pussy" and I didn't go and get my friends to beat his ass, my friend went off and did it and I was drunk and looking to fuck someone up so i went too.I can understand straight friends humping each other as a joke if they both know each other well enough that it isn't a gay thing but this guy was a stranger, my back was turned when it happened, that is sexual assault.

Grow a fuckin' set. Do what any women would do, when getting unwanted advances, laugh and tell them to get lost.Do you realize your the one making this into a big deal?

First off what that was is a guy letting you know your his little bitch and he can control you. Go beat somebody else cause your friend wants to, spend a little time inside and you can witness first hand plenty of straight guys, who don't want to fuck you, humping and generally degrading your ass to show you they've got the upper hand. It's straight guy shit especially when they're drunk. Gay men probably do it also but it says nothing about whether this guy was gay or not.Okay, so you and your friend are both pussies. Jumping on somebody with a friend is pussy act and you know it. If you or your friend have a problem with somebody then stand the fuck up like a man an deal with it man to man... not group of pussies to man. It was a pussy act and you know it."It was my friends idea and he did the most harm," is not going to be any kind of defense ask those high power attorneys.

Quote: First off what that was is a guy letting you know your his little bitch and he can control you.Ok, what the fuck is that supposed to mean? I went to the bar, not the state penitentiary. Actually my friend would have done it whether or not I did too, I would have snuck up and done it myself, I was drunk enough to do something that stupid for sure.  Quote:"It was my friends idea and he did the most harm," is not going to be any kind of defense ask those high power attorneys. No but "gay panic" is recognized as a legitimate defense tactic and in any case I'd be acquitted.

Originally Posted By: OldFolksGrow a fuckin' set. Do what any women would do, when getting unwanted advances, laugh and tell them to get lost.Do you realize your the one making this into a big deal? Yeah but men are SUPPOSED to go after women. A woman going into a bar is going there with full knowledge that's what bars are for and if she is attractive and not with another guy someone will try and hit on her most likely.A guy by himself in a straight bar UNDER NO FUCKING CIRCUMSTANCES should ever be approached by a homosexual. I am not fair game and I do not want guys coming up to me and acting creepy. Even if I were gay I wouldn't want anything to do with them. Pieces of shit probably have aids anyways.

I think this thread just raped my brain. I am a victim!

Originally Posted By: unsupervised

I think this thread just raped my brain. I am a victim!

You know it's not a laughing matter. I was raped, like I said before rape doesn't have to involve someone putting something in you that you don't want in you.

The pervert homosexual at the bar committed an unwanted sexual act upon me. That's rape. And it sickens me that this case and probably so many others go unreported.

Please any homosexuals who read this, spread word around the gay community, hair salons, drama clubs, etc that it's only ok to hit on guys at the GAY BAR, nowhere else... unless they explicitly tell you they are gay.

Quote: The pervert homosexual at the bar committed an unwanted sexual act upon me.You don't even know if this guy was gay, you are just making an assumption. Again, like other have said, he was probably just some drunk straight guy acting a fool and you blew it completely out of proportion. It has nothing to do with you, you were just the unlucky "victim" in his way.  Quote: spread word around the gay community, hair salons, drama clubs, etc ROFL... I'm starting to get this sick sense that you are nothing but a troll...

Originally Posted By: shawungaNo but "gay panic" is recognized as a legitimate defense tactic and in any case I'd be acquitted. LoL.. I hope you are not serious. Attacking a person or killing someone (accidently or intentional) because you think he might have been gay, let alone because some drunkin fool dry humped you will NOT get you an acquittal."Gay Panic" is not a defense tactic lol.